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Im a 13 year old male and im stuck in the so called friend zone. Ive known this girl for 2 years and we have always been friends. I want to be more than just friends though, if anyone could help it would be apreciated! Thanks in advance.

How do you know your in the friend zone? Have you tried flirting and she kinda brushed it off?

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Hey, welcome to the forum.
Try being more flirty and stuff and see how she responds.

Have you tried... oh, I don't know... asking her out?

Feelings have to go both ways, if she's only interested in being friends, then just deal with it.
I know people complain about being friend-zoned a lot but hey a lot of people out there just see some people as friends and that's all. There's not much you can do to change their mind unless they're just willing to suddenly see you in a new light.

So really, why don't you just tell her how you feel? She's not a mind-reader you know.

(If I seem bitchy about this, it's because I've had recent issues with this friend-zone thing... and gee, people wonder why I don't want to hang out with them. Maybe if they stopped lusting after me and falling for me, I might hang out with them more!)

Point is, you'll never really know unless you tell her. Even if you're worried about your friendship and what telling her might do to it, I wouldn't worry. If she's a true friend and is a nice girl then she'll stay friends with you. I mean, I've stayed friend, the best of friends, with the ones who've wanted to be more than friends with me. Oh sure, I rejected them without hesitation but they're my friends. However, that's just me, I don't know the meaning of what an awkward situation is for most people.

what they all said ^^^^

if u are indeed in the friend zone and she has no secret crush on u then its super tuff to get out of the zone ... a good sign that u are in the zone is if she talks about other boys with u (that is a terrible sign!!!!!!! unless she is possibly trying to mke u jealous or just making small talk). So flirt with her n general and if/when she ever talks about other boys being cute just say sumthing like idk like that guy doesnt have my abs (and show her ur abs) or that guy isnt funny like me (and say sumthing funny) etc

How can we say? We don't know, who she is and what the disposition (or character? or temper?) she have. May be you need to say it directly, may be - to drop a hint.

He is 13 - I realized that only?

But pretty much the first three comments. Try to be flirty?

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See, my theory is, if this doesn't happen by itself, then pushing it won't work either, unless you are a very charming guy.

It's really the time for humanity to take a dump.

I think, you should do things which you have never done, when you have been in the 'friend zone'.