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Old 05-01-12, 06:27 PM   #1
 
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Default The One Rin-...err...Girl.

Allright, so here is the situation.

As i have told in an earlier post, i never had a girlfriend. This because of my authistic side, which makes communication with people very difficult.

Turns out, authisticism + person you really like = nothing understandable is gonna come out of a mouth.

But on to the girl. I met this girl at school, she was in my class. She is a real beauty, she was nice, she was funny...everything i looked for in a potential girlfriend. Plus she is a gamer too, and likes the same games as i do.
She also made alot of jokes about me (the good kind, not the hurtful kind) and we went along really well.

But then fate struck!
My school decided i bore them long enough, and they decided to throw me out. I lost her out of my sight, and that was that.

I feel bad every day that i never had the force to tell her how i felt. if there was ever a moment where i thought there would be The One, she would be it. I promised myself i wouldn't let her go, but i did. Friends of her know my secret, and told me i will never stand a chanche, that i am not her type, but i can't just believe that.

The last week or so i went to bed with the same thought:
There is no way i will ever see her again. I also don't have her telephone number. But i do have her email. Michael, throw all your cards on the table and go card blanche. Make a mail with your feelings for her and send it up. It is your last chanche.

So, people of the boards, i seek your council. Girls, boys, couples and foreveralones! Should i do it?
If i do it, the worst that could happen is a no. But she could be weirded out and think i'm a freak.
If i don't, i will always wonder what could have been if i had the guts to do it. And i don't know if i can handle that.

Any suggestions?
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Old 05-01-12, 06:33 PM   #2
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Why don't you just email her asking her to meet up with you? So you can hang out together more, since you're not in the same school anymore. And then, let things flow.










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Old 05-01-12, 06:37 PM   #3
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Default Re: The One Rin-...err...Girl.

I wouldn't show all your cards right away. It might be a bit overwhelming for her and it might come off in the wrong way. Just email her back and establish communication. After that has occurred and you've talked for a bit, the proceed to ask her out and tell her how you feel at a later date.








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I wouldn't go full on for it Id just talk to her and get to know her better then see what happens.








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Old 07-01-12, 03:49 PM   #5
 
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Status update.

I was reading the answers to this thread again, and still puzzling whether i should do it or not. I thought by myself i wouldn't do it anyway, i always give up on things that are too difficult.
So i travelled off to an other site, where i found this:


It might sound strange, but it felt like he was really talking to me.
It felt like the invisible walls i normally always feel just crumbled away.

So i took my phone and called her up. Something i never did in my life.
But i got her voicemail, so i left her a message. No, not the one i was originally was gonna send. I told her i was interested in getting to know her better, and if she was interested in keeping contact.
I am now awaiting a reply. God hope i made the right choice.
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