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jsut because im single don't mean im looking. i have my life planned out and it does not involve someone else for a while. ive got my own things to take care of and my own goals i want to accomplish on my own. im a very independent person and i hate that people think i have to be with someone. i mean really. just because you find out im single dont mean you can hit on me. i mean i have my choice of people that's for sure ive got several guys who have been chasing after me for years, and a couple girls whose been trying the last few months. i hate that people assume that you have to have someone.

im just frustrated because im so sick of it all! i get numbers given to me left and right at work and i throw them all in the trash. i mean i guess im good looking and all but it don't mean i want to be hit on all the freakin time. and by older people at that. im 18 years old and have 40 year olds giving me there number while im at work. its reducilus! (idk how to spell that) lol

and another thing that's just getting under my skin.... im bi okay i am attracted to females just as much as males. and guys seem to think that that is so amazing and ask you to watch and stuff. i think its stupid! being in a relationship with another female to me is just like being with a guy. its a partnership between two people who care about each other! when im in a relationship i look for the emotional part not the sexual part. i mean yeah i know its part of it and it happens sometimes but that's not all i want! and hell right now i don't want a relationship at all!

sorry to just throw all this out here im just so mad about it all! UGH!!!!! if you dont want to comment dont but i had to get it out of my system it has been bugging me for quite a while now.

Wait so let me get this right. Apparently dozens of people find you attractive and hit on you, but since you're not looking for that sort of stuff right now you ignore it. What's the problem here?

^ That.

But I think she means that it has been annoying her. Normally that topic should be in the rant section I guess.

OT: Well, you know just ignore and enjoy your life. You don't have to be frustrated about it. Move on with a smile and laugh at these people. =)

When they start hitting on you, tell them you're not interested. Or, do the following

ACTUAL CONVERSATIONS MY 23 YEAR OLD FRIEND HAD:

Guy: *Sits next to her at the bar* Hey Baby, how you doing?
Her: Oh my herpes is just flaring up today. Other than that pretty good.

Guy: *Walks up to her* Hey, what's up?
Her: My sleezy ex boyfriend has the kids tonight and I'm finally getting a break!

She likes to find creative ways to get rid of unwanted guys. You could have some fun with this. But really, other than that, you just gotta ignore it or tell them to bug off.

I have two things to say here.

1) Of course people are giving you their phone number. Males attract to females, and we always want our hands on a single good-looking one. That's our hornomes, we can't do anything against it. And they can't really sniff out that you don't want them to act like that. Except those dirty 40 year olds. Those can burn in hell.

2) Dating an other female might look normal to you, but not to others. If you look at a gay couple, you also think different of them. I know girls who love to watch gay people hitting it off. So why can't we do the same for two females?

Note that i'm not dissing you, or trying to look negative in any way. I'm just interested in your case.

Ah. Yes. I can see how that could be annoying. Glad you got it out of your system though. Just gotta ignore them and move on with the more important things in your life.

okay im not trying to sound rude or stuck up or anything like that but when i look at a gay couple i dont think different of them its like im looking at a straight couple. i mean when your looking for a relationship you look for what makes you happy. and to me that is male or female. so gay couples are not different from other couples there jsut the same. happy in a relationship.

look at it this way. jay and sam are a couple... you dont know if there male and male, male and female, or female and female... there just a couple..

I get what you mean. I don't really what to date someone before college neither because from the past I've that it's hard for me to let go and I don't what some stopping me from doing what I want to do with my life.

I think there's a difference between being annoyed at people for thinking you need someone and being as conceited as to think that it's because of your individual looks...
Then again, i don't know you so i might be wrong but still, you sound quite full of yourself imo. As for your rant, if you ignore them and tell them your not interested, i'm afraid i can't quite see what the problem is here, i mean if your single, people who are interested in you will hit on you...
Not much u can do about that