11-01-12, 03:58 PM
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Faro, Portugal
Re: I am so messed up!!!!
Welcome to puberty.
According to your age, you should be either entering puberty now or you're already in its initial phase. One of puberty's aspects is uncontrolable jumping hormones freaking around with your mind. This is the possible and probable reason why you have so many mixed feelings towards everyone. It doesn't really matter how mature/immature you might be, the hormones are still fuckers like that.
The best you can do to try to control it is to let it flow naturally, until it eventually stops. If you run from it, you'll become increasingly more confused. However, in order to prevent heart breaking on any side, I advise you don't become romantically involved with anyone before you believe you're finally settling down. Until then, there is more to life than boys. Just enjoy it, you're still young.
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