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Old 11-01-12, 03:52 PM   #1
 
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OK all of you know (and if you don't well now you do!!) I have been dating someone for 3 months. I think I found out why I cant say "I love you". OK so, since I have a lot of guy friends ever since last year I kept developing feelings for all of them. Like one week I will like one boy, then the next week I will like another.

I am so messed up. Right now honestly I don't know how I feel. I keep starting to like all of these boys! Its like I am addicted to them. I never tell the boy that I start to like - out of no where- That I like him. I know that Ill start to like some one else soon.

I have mixed emotions all of the time!! Sometimes it goes out of control like I think out of no where, I love him. I like him. I hate him.. I really like him! Then the next day I am like ewww!!! I dont like them.

So how do I like control this? I am supposed to be focusing on one person but I just can't. It never stops! Please help what should I do I am so confused!!! I think I should take a break from boys. No matter how hard I try I can't stop getting all of these feelings. I need some advice A.s.a.p!! (sorry for the length. but thx alot!)

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Old 11-01-12, 03:57 PM   #2
 
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Uhh...

I'm just as clueless as you are at this point.
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Old 11-01-12, 03:58 PM   #3
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Welcome to puberty.
According to your age, you should be either entering puberty now or you're already in its initial phase. One of puberty's aspects is uncontrolable jumping hormones freaking around with your mind. This is the possible and probable reason why you have so many mixed feelings towards everyone. It doesn't really matter how mature/immature you might be, the hormones are still fuckers like that.

The best you can do to try to control it is to let it flow naturally, until it eventually stops. If you run from it, you'll become increasingly more confused. However, in order to prevent heart breaking on any side, I advise you don't become romantically involved with anyone before you believe you're finally settling down. Until then, there is more to life than boys. Just enjoy it, you're still young.
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Old 11-01-12, 04:08 PM   #4
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I agree with him
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Default Re: I am so messed up!!!!

Puberty, no doubt.
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Puberty is playing mkind games with you. It's not uncommnon. Don't worry, it sucks now but eventually in time it will go away










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