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So, this is kind of awkward, but i ranted about this one girl never sending replies to my messages.
I was checking my mail, like the pancake boss that i am, and guess what?
The girl wrote back a reply to my mail i sent 6-7 days ago.
Now, i don't even know what i must do. Should i open it and read what she has to say? Or should i keep it closed/remove it and go on with my life?
I'm crapping my pantaloons pretty hard right now.
"I believe in Karma. I can do bad things to people and assume they deserved it."
Well you should read it. I don't see why you shouldn't. Maybe she just doesn't use her email all that much or maybe she's been busy recently. Even if she just didn't do it til now, at least have the courtesy to read it. I mean she did take the time to send it to you.
You can read it but if you're getting over her pretty easily id just let it go, read it but not take it too seriously. If it didn't work well from the start, replying back and forth and finding it late etc id take it as a sign it wasn't meant to be, but then people could say finding it now would be a sign that it's supposed to happen.. so idk, for me like I said id pick the former.
Little white flowers will never awaken you, not when the cold depths have all but overtaken you.
Dearest, The days are all so long,
and in the shadows I spend them all.
My heart and I long for slumber.
Slumber I'm caressing you, I bless your touch, I lust for you.
Slumber you are not a dream, Not as much as you seem.
- Joao <3
Okay, so my curiousity got the better hand of me, and so i read the mail.
Translated, it looked something like this:
Hey Michael!
Sorry that i'm answering so late. I never really check my mail that much. It was a coincedence i had to check my mail.
Thanks for your sweet mail! I heard that you got kicked off school, and i thought it was a shame we didn't have time to say goodbye to each other. So, how've you been so far?
I know you as a very silent guy, but i've always seen you as a cool and nice person, and i felt you were my friend. I too wanted to meet you better, you always made me laugh and you were always there to discuss disturbing things with me, haha!
I hope we can keep in contact! I would really like that!
Guys? I think i'm going to buy the whole board a round. I don't think i felt this happy in years!
"I believe in Karma. I can do bad things to people and assume they deserved it."
So, after talking a bit with her, she has been shimmering things through. At least, i think she is.
She is saying things like
"i hope you liked me more then the rest, because i think you are very cool and funny"
and
"Even when the day looked the bleakest, i still had the feeling i wanted to talk with you".
I know nothing about the girl psyche. It confuses me. So, to the girls i ask, is this just small talk or is she trying to hint things through?
I have a crush on her, but i don't want to just tell her in case she gets freaked out.
Is she trying to tell me she likes me?
"I believe in Karma. I can do bad things to people and assume they deserved it."
Today's Toppers
Remember that rant i wrote? Well...
