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1Love1Life · 16-01-12, 04:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Nobartholem

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I'm in a relationship, i've been in a relationship. At NO point in the past 11 months have I held my girlfriend down and kissed her against her will because that's what I was supposed to do. You're being ridiculous.

You can't ever really see each other
You're scared of physical contact
It seems like you two are more like close family members than in a relationship ANYWAYS.

Plus he seems like an asshole.

Well, we're not scared of physical contact. I am, sorta.. well not really scared, just.. not used to it all. It's all new to me and I guess I'm just shy to do anything. As for him, he has no problem with doing ANYTHING w/ me.
And actually we don't see OR treat each other as family members we see each other more like best friends begging a different kind of relationship.

1Love1Life · 16-01-12, 04:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Caer

So wait.... you've apparently only known him 6 months, but You've liked him since you were younger?...Like...6 months younger?

Lol.

Oh, also;

LOL INCEST.

I've had a CRUSH on him ever since I was about 12, and as I grew older it got deeper and more serious. Now I'm in love with him.

1Love1Life · 16-01-12, 04:07 AM

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Originally Posted by DeepDistress

I'm pretty sure the deformed babies won't give a crap if you grew up together or not.. They still gonna be messed up.

As everyone said above, incest, he sounds like a ass, etc.

It's not guaranteed I'll have deformed babies.. Even though we're cousins, we have different blood types. And there are MANY cousin marriages here in my country, most of them had no problems at all. My grandparents are also cousins. They've had 5 children and they're all as healthy as they can be.

1Love1Life · 16-01-12, 04:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Cadet

Okay, ignoring the fact that he's your cousin, this is still wrong. Yeah, you agreed to go into his house, but not to have him on top of you. Just because I go to my boyfriends house does not mean I'm accepting to have sex with me, or anything like that. That is not something that people in a relationship just do. A meaningful relationship leads to that. You're not even comfortable kissing him or being around him yet, so why should it be okay for him to get on top of you and kiss you on the neck?

And you're pissed for a reason. You subconsciously know that what he did was wrong. And not your fault by the way. Let him know you're not okay with this. And I say dump him, not because he's your cousin, but because of the type of guy he is. He's moving too fast for you and not respecting your boundaries. That's not the type of person you want to be with.

YEAH, you are all right. What he did was WRONG, I know that.. but what happened happened. Do you guys really think dumping him is the right thing to do? After all these years I've dreamed and waited to be with him? After all the GOOD times we've had, forgetting that one bad time? Yeah he made a mistake, but maybe he's ILL. Maybe he's not even normal, maybe he has problems with himself?

1Love1Life · 17-01-12, 04:16 AM

1Love1Life · 18-01-12, 05:05 AM

Aaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

please

1Love1Life · 18-01-12, 05:24 AM

Now we're back on track, chit-chatting normally, laughing & having fun..
But I still feel like I've been used :(