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So I like this guy from school. He started hitting me up since last year before the summer, but everytime I was just too busy. He always says im cute, pretty, hot, sexy etc. But all over text message, skype, or facebook. Then on boxing day, we finally got a chance to hang out and we ended up walking towards an elementry school. We started making out and he eventually started fingering me. It stoped there, cause I didnt want to go any farther. A couple days later, we were texting and I was kinda pissed off at him so he kept on apologizing and then he said he really liked me. but over text message. When i see him at school, it's just totally awkward cause, idk...we're friends with different groups at our school. So, what do you guys think, does he actually like me, or does he want a hook up?

I think he just wants a hook up. If he only says how pretty you are one messages and can't say it in person, than I think he just wants someone to make out and hook up with every now and then. You can't tell if some one is lying on a message. He's probably just saying that because he thinks it will make you wan't him more. He probably just wants to show off to his friends that he can get a girl. I don't think he wants a real relationship.

I disagree.
Just because he is awkward in real life doesn't mean he just want you as a fling!
Maybe he is just shy, or something else is obstructing him. I can know, i have the same problem with every crush i ever had.
In texts i can be Mr. Romance, but in real life i'm a shy guy who doesn't dare to talk face to face.

Just go up to him, and talk with him about the situation. Find out what he thinks about it. I know i would like it, so he must like it too.

You are kinda getting mixed signals here. It could go either way, and no one is going to tell you the correct answer for sure. If I were you, I'd just ask him over text where he seems most comfortable, and ask him if he really likes you. If he does, ask to hang out in school, after school, or at least at some point where you feel he's ignoring you. See what his response is or how he acts later on. Overall, just let him know you're looking for more than what he's giving, which is only an online texting relationship.

well he does tell me in person, when we're alone..but honestly i dont think i'm the type of girl he'd want to show off to his friends about lol

ahhh. so it isnt only him
the only thing is, i'm extremely shy too, especially around guys i like.. :/ guess i just gotta suck it up and go talk to him :/

If you were a hook up wouldn't he want to show you off..?

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the thing is, every time you make out with him, don't let it get hot, and see if he keeps interested, if he keeps it up for a couple of weeks it is worth a shot, I guess

I think he's interested... But you need to basically be straight up with him. Like, he can't be embarrassed to show you off, hold your hand, hang around with you, etc.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

lool k that sounds like a good idea.. ill try it