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Hey guys. So I've been speaking with this girl for weeks now, having short hang outs at school etc but today we properly hung out at my house, watched a movie and that.

We were talking and she explained how she's been with 4 boys before and had sex around 30 times. Now, I'm still a virgin, were both 16 and after hearing this I feel so lame. It took me 2 hours to eventually get the balls to kiss her and she kept telling me to calm down as I am inexperienced and was going pretty fast. I felt embarrassed and kind of patronised by her saying this but I carried on. It makes me feel like such an idiot the fact I've only ever made out twice before and now I'm embarassed to try doing it with her again.

There's nothing to do at my house and nothing to do out and I feel strongly that she was bored most of the time and I feel like a complete dumbass. Now I don't feel up to talking to her because I'm so embarrassed from this failure of a day.

Seriously what should i do. I'm ridiculously nervous when I know she wants to kiss me or anything and that just makes me mess up.

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Nothing you can do really. If she's going out with you she's interested; that should be a good enough reason for you to not mess shit up.
So much stuff you can do though... Go to the park, the movies, anything really.

You should tell her what exactly was going through your mind. Most of the time girls understand so I am pretty sure she will. Maybe you can set up a well panned date so it doesn't look like you are trying to go to fast.

Don't feel lame. That girl is lame for being with 4 guys and having sex 30 times at age 16.

But that comment doesn't help you. Since the girl is so experienced, she should teach you when to do what. Aka, have a conversation about your wants and lusts, and what she wants.

tell her u make up to her next time around and next time just enjoy yourself try not to worry too much