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really like the way u put things in perspective here Izziee, i dont think i would have a problem with my bf if she was ugly, guess when we were 3 we didnt really consider if someone was handsome or not, the thing here is, im really afraid she likes me, and eventually makes me break up and get into a relationship with her, which will, sooner or later, end, at the end of the day friendship is forever, teen love aint
At the end of the day, friendship is forever. Yeah, but you're considering dating this girl, so you're not really doing yourself favours here..
Plus, no one can make you break up, all I know if, if I knew my boyfriend was thinking the same as you I would literally go crazy, don't treat your girl that you'd "love to marry" like this, if you don't want her say, but if you do stay with her.
I'm not saying its cheating, but you need to prioritize. Who do you like more: your girlfriend or the best friend? I would personally just weigh the two. The grass is always greener on the other side.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
I'm not saying its cheating, but you need to prioritize. Who do you like more: your girlfriend or the best friend? I would personally just weigh the two. The grass is always greener on the other side.
This, however I would change it to "always seems greener"
Me and my boyfriend had a rough patch a few months ago, and he thought he needed to be free, to be single, so he told me he was unofficially breaking up with me, but we were going to see how it went. So basically, on a break.
I had a party that weekend and he wasn't coming, as he had prior arrangements, much to my surprise, he turned up, asked for me back and said he'd never felt so alone and so broken e.t.c., he said he had to leave and once he did he continued to text me because he couldn't stand the feeling of me with other people right now, and he felt vunerable.
This was one of the best nights of my life, but regardless, if you're best mate wasn't hot, tenner says you'd not consider going out with her, you're attracted to her looks over personality and that does not head for a good relationship.
I'm sort of in an unofficial relationship with mine, it's been on and off for a few years but whatever. Taking into consideration my personal experience, I'd say go for it. We've also been best friends since early childhood and I tell you man, it's fucking phenomenal. Bag dat hoe now.
p.s. Obviously if you 100%, completely, absolutely want to be with your girlfriend then don't go for your best friend. But honestly, I'm assuming you guys know each other perfectly, probably more than you know yourselves, so that's like... great.
i think knowing herself so much would be bad in a relationship, we fight each and every day, even tho a nice hug always fixes it, im afraid the people who says the guy that wants it all always comes up empty r right.
I heard a quote once that said, "If you fall for one girl whilst with another, go with the second one, because if you loved the first as much as you thought you'd never have considered the second" But I think it's complete bull. As much as guys like hot chicks, and try not to show it, they need some kind of emotional attactment once in a while IMO
I'm not saying its cheating, but you need to prioritize. Who do you like more: your girlfriend or the best friend? I would personally just weigh the two. The grass is always greener on the other side.
guess thats why ill keep my girlfriend, things are starting to look brighter now. i mean the way my girl makes me feel is really unique, she makes me happy and not horny, if u wanna spend your life or part of it with someone, you wanna be happy not horny.
I heard a quote once that said, "If you fall for one girl whilst with another, go with the second one, because if you loved the first as much as you thought you'd never have considered the second" But I think it's complete bull. As much as guys like hot chicks, and try not to show it, they need some kind of emotional attactment once in a while IMO
ur totally right here, apart from the once in a while, kissing a hot girl isn't half the fun as kissing the girl u like, so even tho sometimes a girl makes u wanna kiss her, it does not, by any means, mean you gonna like it, so im totally IN for the emotional attachment thing
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