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Old 16-01-12, 11:12 AM   #1
 
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There is this girl I kinda like. I met her last year when she joined my school mid year. The way I met her is... her mom found out we live on the same street. She asked if I could take her home some days that she could take us to school some mornings. (Neither of us had our licenses then, but we do now).
So we did that carpooling for a while until I got my license. Over the course of that time, I showed mild interest in her (she's super nice) and even asked her to go for a walk with me around the neighborhood a couple times. She said yes both times but then made up some excuse about homework or whatnot. That was last January.
Anyway, I think she just considers me a friend (we only talk occasionally), but I would like to ask her out. Should I go for it? Or just forget about it and move on?
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Old 16-01-12, 11:23 AM   #2
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I think before you ask her out, you definitely need to rekindle your friendship. Its been a year, mate. Don't just randomly ask her put, or she'll think you're quite weird








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Old 16-01-12, 11:27 AM   #3
 
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I think before you ask her out, you definitely need to rekindle your friendship. Its been a year, mate. Don't just randomly ask her put, or she'll think you're quite weird
It's not like we never talk or anything. It's a tiny school so we see each other all the time and occasionally talk. So I'm not sure how that would be weird...
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Old 16-01-12, 11:29 AM   #4
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Well, then talk more, me thinks.








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Old 16-01-12, 11:30 AM   #5
 
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flirt a little with her, it will make you feel more comfortable
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Old 16-01-12, 11:37 AM   #6
 
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I could try, but the last thing I want to do is make HER uncomfortable. She's just not really the flirting type.

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Old 16-01-12, 11:53 AM   #7
 
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just do it slowly, no fast moves, just talk, look her in the eye, see how it goes if she likes you, you'll notice
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Old 16-01-12, 12:23 PM   #8
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Last january man? Pretty worthless putting that in here at this point haha.
You need to get closer and make it obvious that you might be interested in her. That's all.









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I didn't read this thread but my answer is YES ... GO FOR IT!
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Old 17-01-12, 04:10 AM   #10
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Default Re: Should I ask her out?

I say no, don't do it just yet.
You only talk occasionally, so popping the question will weird her out.
First take her places, have more conversations with her, and then think about a relationship.

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