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Seriously, I don't know whats wrong with me..

My boyfriend gets a bit meh with school and stuff because well lets face it, it's pretty stressful. Anyway things seemed okay with him then he suddenly went off so I asked him what was wrong and he said "nothing you" with no question mark and my facebook messed up and so it only sent "you" so I thought he was annoyed at me so I said "huh?" and then he was like "Omg, are you alright?" and I was like ooh sorry i read that wrong without the question mark haha, and he went "well im sorry" and I could tell something was definitely up and I was starting to bother him, so I said whats up matt? :/ and he just said "nothing." so i asked if he could promise me that, so I knew he wasnt lying, and he just went oh my god. and left, and now hes not talking to me..

I know I should leave him to just get in a better mood or be alone or whatever but i'm like.. sitting here crying my pathetic little eyes out, I can't stand the feeling of him being annoyed at me, or being upset and not wanting to talk to me.. if you get me?

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He might just need time, honestly. Just reassure him that you're there for him, he'll appreciate it.

As for the crying. HAVE SOME CHOCOLATE!

I understand, whats going on hre. Something is definitely wrong, and it's not just school. He will either tell you or you won't. If he can't communicate his feelings to you than your relationship is doomed to fail. Your partner is the one youre always supposed to be able to go to, and if he can't go to you when something is wrong, then he has a problem.

But what if hes annoyed at me for pestering him? I really can't take it all, thats why I hate myself aha.. well, one of the reasons..

Seriously I wish but, can't really move off this bed much

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He can usually tell me but not always straight away, sometimes he needs some alone time, but i'm just saying I can't deal with it, its more a rant about me I guess

Grey's Anatomy fan! woo.

Misundestandings and a bit of tension are normal in relationships. But you just have to calm down, stop worrying about it. I know it's hard... being a woman makes us really unstable and wonder if we did something wrong; and the thing goes on and on in our head and it seems to kill us inside. But maybe Facebook was being a bitch again? I don't know. Maybe you missed another part of it?
Give him time; next time you see him in person you can fortunately see what went wrong. Or when you'll text. Fortunately, you'll see it's nothing. (:
You don't have to hate yourself for this. If you need to chat, don't hesitate to contact me. Good luck either way, dear!

Suddenly my eyes are open
Everything comes into focus, oh!
We are all illuminated,
Lights are shining on our faces
We are, we are blinded !
We are, we are blinded !

Hehehe...for chocolate advice you should ask @chocolate freak xD

Try not to be annoying. Talk to him, find out what he's need, but again: don't be annoying
If he have school problem ask him can you help him ... getit?

I've been through this before with him, if I text him, he wont reply, and if I call him he'll block it. The "oh my god" at the end of the convo signified that I had annoyed him, and then he left because he was pissed off, so I don't supposed he'd want to talk to me. I must be so subconciously annoying because, I try so hard to be a good girlfriend whilst being myself

Grey's Anatomy fan! woo.

How old are you?

If you're under the 18 dump him and wait for few days, he'll come back when he figure what he lost! And if he'll not coming back, that's it! You don't need to be with him, because he don't like you any more...

Hey hey wait what. He may be upset at her, but it doesn't mean he'd lover her less, right? Dumping him is far from helping the situation.

Suddenly my eyes are open
Everything comes into focus, oh!
We are all illuminated,
Lights are shining on our faces
We are, we are blinded !
We are, we are blinded !