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I met this guy in the beginning of the school year (September) and we became friends soon after. He said I'm his best friend and he is one of mine. We're just friends right now, but I'm not so sure that he wants to be just friends. We talk a lot (almost everyday, by text or Facebook if not in person). When we're alone, he comes very close to me and touches me (hands, arms, hair). He says that he cares for me very much, that I mean a lot to him, that he worries about me a lot. He also made me a bracelet and is now writing a song for me. I think it's very sweet of him, but I'm not sure what he wants, exactly.
I'm at a stand-still right now because while he gives me plenty of signs that he likes me, he rarely speaks to me until I talk to him first (he does stare and make eye contact with me though). When our eyes meet, I feel like he's baring straight into my soul and he can hear everything I am thinking. I can't tell if I'm different than his other friends that are girls. I feel like the "best friend" thing may be putting me in the "friend zone". I do like him more than a friend and I would tell him how I feel if I was more confident of his feelings.
Thank you for reading and please tell me what you think...
He reallllllly likes you, but is just really shy about it me thinks. I'm not sure which route you want to take, but you should reciprocate what he does. Touch hime, be flirty, etc.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
Sounds like a great man. Writing a song for someone is always a big deal. Even more if its singing. Rapping is really hard itself, but composing a whole song of all music is extremely difficult. You should be honored he's doing it for you. I bet you he cant find the words to say that he wants to be in a relationship with you. I'm not sure how people figure that out. Maybe you should ask him if you know what to say.
Sounds like a great man. Writing a song for someone is always a big deal. Even more if its singing. Rapping is really hard itself, but composing a whole song of all music is extremely difficult. You should be honored he's doing it for you. I bet you he cant find the words to say that he wants to be in a relationship with you. I'm not sure how people figure that out. Maybe you should ask him if you know what to say.
He plays the trombone and trumpet and is composing an instrumental piece on those. I am honored and thrilled. I don't know what to say about the relationship thing either.
It sounds like he likes you. He may just not be initiating conversation because he wants to see if you're interested in speaking to him and not just talking to him because he talks to you.
Wow. There's really not much left for him to do short of kissing you, or telling you his feelings. Why not help him get there?
Seriously, some of the things he's doing are normally only done between boyfriend/girlfriend.
You need to start flirting and making your feelings obvious. If you need tips on flirting just ask here!
I suppose you could just kiss him, but you might make his head explode, haha.
If flirting doesn't cause him to make a move, when you're alone sometime you could just ask, "do you want to be more than friends?"
Thanks. What is he doing that is usually done between boyfriend and girlfriend? I'm pretty lost, I've never been in a relationship before. Thank you again!!
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So he wrote a song for me...
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