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So, I have a psychotic ex-girlfriend. Like, beyond insane. We dated for like a month last May, and then she broke up with me. That's fine. Then we became very close friends, which is great. No problems with that whatsoever. She's always been a bit weird, but I can understand that, I'm weird too.
However, the past few weeks she's been hitting on me. Now, there's nothing wrong with that. I've made it pretty clear that I'm not interested. I'm just not physically or mentally attracted to her; she acts a bit young, and looks too young, for my tastes. Anyways, the ways in which she's been hitting on me has been weird. For example, she wants to talk about getting married and what we're naming our three children. Like, the fuck?
Even weirder: She sent me a 9 page text message story about these Froggies who go to different schools and met each other through debate, became best friends, got married, and had babby froggy children. I responded, "This is really creepy." and she insisted that it was "cute". She then texted me the next day after I didn't respond "Hi Froggy. Why didn't you respond?"
I'm genuinely grossed out and freaked out. What should I do?
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
How is that genuinely psychotic?
1. characterized by or afflicted with psychosis.
noun What is psychosis then
Psychosis is a loss of contact with reality, usually including false beliefs about what is taking place or who one is (delusions) and seeing or hearing things that aren't there (hallucinations).
So she is a bit odd maybe still likes you. Don't thing that means she psychotic
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"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
i did, i just started outwith facts that she isnt insane/crazy/psychotic
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"This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill
Fifteen percent concentrated power of will
Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain
And a hundred percent reason to remember the name!"
when you say that you've made it pretty clear you don't want to be together, do you mean you've used those words or just feel like you've said enough in other ways? cause girls can overlook a lot of things that aren't the flat out truth when they really like someone. if all else fails, just stop texting her. she sounds like a stalker actually...
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Originally Posted by zazzle
when you say that you've made it pretty clear you don't want to be together, do you mean you've used those words or just feel like you've said enough in other ways? cause girls can overlook a lot of things that aren't the flat out truth when they really like someone. if all else fails, just stop texting her. she sounds like a stalker actually...
She hinted that she would make a good girlfriend, and I essentially told her that I felt like we were better off as friends because I didn't feel like that.
and yes, she does exhume some stalking qualities.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
Last edited by Kryptonite; 20-01-12 at 05:02 PM..
Reason: Double post regarding two of the same things.
I think you should talk to her. All bitches be cray man, she is just a-bit more open in her craziness. maybe you genuinely like her, and that is why you just simply can't ignore her.
My advice would be to just come out and tell her that you aren't interested and that you'd rather her not flirt with you, if it bothers you. That's probably one of the only sure ways that you can get her to stop.
How do you think that it would affect our friendship?
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
It would. And there's no way to really avoid that. I don't know how drastic the change would be but it would change it, even just slightly. So if it doesn't really bother you a lot, then maybe just ignore the whole thing and nothing will change. Maybe hope she stops after a while. But if you can't stand the way she is flirting with you, then i would say you would have to talk to her about it and hope for the best.
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Insane Ex-Girlfriend. Please help me.
