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Ever since my old bf died
I really didn't find anyone I was interested in
Along came Marilyn Manson
I never knew what he looked like till 2009
I can't really say I have a crush on him but I feel sorta drawn to him
I am known of the school freak now but I don't understand myself!
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"The soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tear,"
I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend, but you need to get that shizz out of your head. It won't happen.
Sophisticated ignorance, write my curses in cursive
I get it custom, you a customer
You ain't ‘customed to going through Customs, you ain’t been nowhere, huh?
I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend... Naturally, it must be very hard. I'm also sorry to hear that you are regarded as the school "freak".
Have you considered seeking help?
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
You might have just gone to the wrong kind of help. There are a lot of therapists out there, and it's all about finding the right one. That can take some time, but once you do find that one therapist it can do wonders for your life.
Now, it's understandable that you would have trouble after your boyfriend died. It's not easy to be attached to someone and then just lose them. And it's understandable that you'd find it hard not to like someone afterwords. The recovery from that can take months to years. It's also likely that you'd find attachment to someone famous or even a family member. This will pass in time once you start to learn how to adjust to the way things are now without him. It's going to be a while, but it will happen. Just stay close to friends, talk to people, and it should all work out in time.
You might have just gone to the wrong kind of help. There are a lot of therapists out there, and it's all about finding the right one. That can take some time, but once you do find that one therapist it can do wonders for your life.
Now, it's understandable that you would have trouble after your boyfriend died. It's not easy to be attached to someone and then just lose them. And it's understandable that you'd find it hard not to like someone afterwords. The recovery from that can take months to years. It's also likely that you'd find attachment to someone famous or even a family member. This will pass in time once you start to learn how to adjust to the way things are now without him. It's going to be a while, but it will happen. Just stay close to friends, talk to people, and it should all work out in time.
I don't want help!!
And I just don't understand myself !!
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"The soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tear,"
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Help me please
