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But I guess for what you want, to focus a little more on personality, is think about what you like in a girl. What do you want their personality to be like. Do you want a witty sense of humor? Do you want her to enjoy sports? Try and think about those kinds of things when you think about a girl, as well as her looks.
I don't really have any preferences in this area, I'm the kind of person just gets along with everyone but I see what you mean.
Anyway, thanks for all the responses, much appreciated, looks like it's nothing to worry about then!
I agree. People who say looks don't matter are lying to an extent. There has to be some attraction there, and it can't just come from the personality alone. You have to find them good looking, average+.
I agree. People who say looks don't matter are lying to an extent. There has to be some attraction there, and it can't just come from the personality alone. You have to find them good looking, average+.
Yup, but the thing is, people are attracted to different things, I can think of someone I found extremely attractive and no one else did, so no need to have low self esteem and beat yourself up if you don't fit the "criteria" of beauty.
looks do matter. alot in todays society at least.
I dont think you're doing anything wrong by being attracted to outside beauty..but hopefully, once youre attracted to the outside part, you do look deeper into the inner beauty, because that's what makes something last.
everyones attracted to outside beauty and thats what makes us want to get to know that person even more
Yup, but the thing is, people are attracted to different things, I can think of someone I found extremely attractive and no one else did, so no need to have low self esteem and beat yourself up if you don't fit the "criteria" of beauty.
I agree, there's no average good looking person or anything like that, because everyone finds different things and people attractive.
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