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I can't do this anymore, I love him way too much to break up with him, plus I would be way more depressed if I did. (I reckon in the long run i'd be better but theres no way I would want to suffer the short run) also I really do want to be with him? I just don't want him being the way he is to me sometimes.
Sometimes he is perfect. Sometimes he texts me and hes all happy and it makes me happy, however when hes in a bad mood I may aswell go hang myself too. He really takes it out on me, his anger, when he's pissed off he will be really blunt and out of order to me, and everyones starting to notice it, i've been told by 3 close friends that they "admire" me for actually sticking with him!
Anyhow, the idea is its amazing when it's good, but horrible when it's bad, and it's usually bad when school time is on, which is most of the time.. Don't say leave him, because I wont, I just wanna know if anyone gets me?
Uh-huh, exaclty what I'm going through. I'm with this guy that I'm obsessed for, and I must admit sometimes he can be a total moron, and at times I actually hate him (but only for a while, haha). He really gets on my nerves to a point where I think of dumping him. But then.. I just can't. 'Cause I know the suffering that awaits me, and tell me something, since I'll be suffering afterwards, doesn't that mean it's something I don't want to do? So why do it?
My boyfriend has anger problems, too. And when he's angry, it's scary. ...*sigh* He's even called me a bitch even though he knows I'm not one, but the anger overtook him. & guess what? I still decided to be with him. Wanna know something else? I got layed without even wanting to, he just unexpectedly got on top of me. We made-out, but that's it, nothing serious. I was pissed of afterwards, but we're still together.
Women don't understand how men think, yet they expect us to understand how they think. Ladies, men are blunt, especially to people we love. We also get angry. Unless they are hitting or mentally abusing you (bitch doesn't count), they're decent for you. Do they try their hardest? Do they show their love? Occasional bouts of anger to break the perfect picture is normal. Thats how a healthy relationships should be, especially with teenage boys. If it bothers you that much, tell them. Women want to just cry, and men want solutions (there are exact studies that say this... Don't coin me as a sexist ). I think both of you just need to reach a compromise with both of your boyfriends.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
What Jared said, but of course whole other story if he's provincially, mentally/emotionally, or verbally abusive to you.
You just have to communicate and find the right guy who's willing to compromise and talk, even when he's not upset, and other times you need to just try and be strong and over come your insecurities and that on your own. You both have to be willing to work on it and compromise. (Which I got really lucky on with my guy.. )
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
So? That doesn't change anything and what Jared said still applies.
Sophisticated ignorance, write my curses in cursive
I get it custom, you a customer
You ain't ‘customed to going through Customs, you ain’t been nowhere, huh?
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
I can't recall them all, it would just be a normal conversation then suddenly he would be blunt.. so like.. in the middle of context one time - "Haha oh god, that would be so funny! So whatcha doing?" - "Nothing"
Kind of thing.. anyway he said the reason he was kinda having doubts was because if he stayed with me for a long time than he would only get to have sex with 1 girl in his "youth" (as he was a virgin before we met) so yeaah, I can understand.. I guess
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This is literally driving me insane.
Don't say leave him, because I wont, I just wanna know if anyone gets me?
). I think both of you just need to reach a compromise with both of your boyfriends.
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