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Well...I have an issue. my girlfriend's talking to her first kiss...she obviously likes her still (the girls bi..) and they miss each other...and the other girl hinted at my girl moving back to see her..
and well I'm so jealous I almost don't wanna go to the dance tonight.
Cuz we have a dance..
I can't talk to her about it, she's already lost so many friends cuz of dating me that hated me...
Go to the dance. And also tell your girlfriend that you love her, and that she needs to do what makes her happy. But tell her you won't tolerate being the third wheel to their bisexual adventures. You must remain priominent, and you can't take her shit. She obviously cares very deeply for you if she shot herself in the foot with all of her friends. to date you.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
It's up to you is the relationship that much worth it to you? is it worth being hurt over? if so then go to the dance.
I hate how some bisexual people tend to forget that they're ex is a ex regardless of sex. It still hurts the current person -.- just because they're a girl you can't go back to being omgbestgirlfriendsever. no, they're still an ex.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Go to the dance. And also tell your girlfriend that you love her, and that she needs to do what makes her happy. But tell her you won't tolerate being the third wheel to their bisexual adventures. You must remain priominent, and you can't take her shit. She obviously cares very deeply for you if she shot herself in the foot with all of her friends. to date you.
But go to the dance. For sure.
I suppose your right. Just the other chick was being all reminiscent...and exchanging I miss you's..kinda got to me.
Just cause she's talking to her does not necessarily mean anything, if she's put up with shit from fake friends then she obviously cares for you. Wait and see what happens before assuming she's cheating
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it's alright, to tell me
what you think, about me,
i won't try, to argue,
or hold it, against you.
Just cause she's talking to her does not necessarily mean anything, if she's put up with shit from fake friends then she obviously cares for you. Wait and see what happens before assuming she's cheating
It's not that. It's just making me jealous. I have trust and jealousy issues. Are they flaring up or is this reasonable jealousy?
I suppose your right. Just the other chick was being all reminiscent...and exchanging I miss you's..kinda got to me.
As it should. You should tell your girlfriend that it bothers you. I'm sure she'll understand.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
As Jared said, she should understand. I'm still good friends with my first kiss. He's one of my best friends. He's constantly telling me how much he misses me, and I'll admit I still have some feelings for him. And my boyfriend knows this. I'm completely honest with him and that helps a lot. He's the extremely jealous type and I'm assuming the same as you.
There's nothing wrong with feeling jealous, especially if the girl is acting the way she is. Things are okay with my and boyfriend in this situation because he knows that what used to be with my ex, is over for me and there's no way I'd go back to him. You just need to talk to your girlfriend and make sure it's the same for her.
Go to the dance, enjoy yourselves, then in a day or two sit down and talk to her about it. Let her know you need some reassurance. You're a good boyfriend for caring about her keeping friends, and it's great that you are thinking of her for that, so make sure you mention that when you talk to her. You will most likely have to compromise and tell her they can still talk and stuff (which she has the right to) but let her know that you'd appreciate her being honest with you about what's going on as far as where her loyalty is. Just be honest with her and ask her to do the same.
Go to the dance. Try and have some fun, of course. But you can't ignore this issue. You have to talk to her about it and I don't really see a reason that you can't talk to her about it. Tell her that it really bothers you. If she cares about you that much, she'll understand just fine. If it bothers you, you should probably tell her before it's too late or something like that.
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