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Okay, so I've been dating erin for like 3 months, I've known her since I was 13, but she had a boyfriend then and I was to shy anyways and she lives 70 miles away so I couldn't see her but 3 times a year. Now I can drive and see her every week if not every other, and we txt and talk constantly. Anyways when I was 15 I had sort of this 1 month "fling" with this girl who moved in the trailer park I was living in at the time. It was okay at first and I sort of liked her at first but she started lyingand rushing things and doing everything she could to get attention. She stole, and she was a little slutty. I wouldn't trust her to tie myt shoes shed probably steal the laces! Anyways I couldnt take all the drama any more it was fucking with my school work and relationship with friends so I cut her off. She kept trying to get me to "figure things out" and didnt understand the meaning of the word "NO" and that there was nothing to figure out. Now out of the blue she's trying to "come back into my life" as she still has "strong feelings for me" and talking as if we were married. Hell she never even hugged me or anything!! I've tried being nice, I've tried being to the point. I've tried being a total dick, but 3 years later she still doesn't get it!!!! I've told her No, Erin's my world and I have everything I ever wanted and more, and I had moved on long ago and she needs to do the same. (to tell you the truth I was happy 2 mins after I broke up with her.) What the hell can I do???? It's pissing me off and even Erin's getting annoyed, and if this bitch pushes Erin away from me idk what I'd do.

I'm a high roller till the Low Fuel light comes on, then I'm a high roller with no money

Merk da hoe

I have a similar problem.

An ex of mine is always spreading shit to any new girl I date. Right now, I'm quite serious with a new girl and she lied to them and they got pissed at me.

Now, before I continue, I DON'T CONDONE ACTUALLY DOING THIS STUFF!

But, and once again I stress, don't live up to these threats, but threaten shit. Threaten you will destroy everything the bitch loves. Threaten to tell any secrets you know, or get close to her and learn some and then use them against her. Threaten anything that would emotionally destroy her, she'll back down.

I know, I sound like a gigantic prick, but it works. I don't condone living up to them unless she challenges them, then do something weak but signifying, like spread a rumor or something.

Good luck, friend.

Just talk to your current girl about this as much as you can, I'm sure she knows your crazy over her and just ignore the ex.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

If the ex talks to you, just talk about Erin. Make sure to keep Erin in the loop so that she knows what's going on. If the ex still persists, try to ignore her as much as you can. If worst comes to worst, just tell her, not politely, that "Erin is my world, and I'd love for you to get out of mine" or something like that.
She seems like an attention grabber as you said before. You just have to be blunt sometimes and do everything you can to get them to understand. I hope it works out, it's a tough situation to be in.