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Okay, so basically I crushed on this guy at college for like 7 months. He always talked about me to his Friends and he told his best friend that he likes me. He followed me to a college party and went up town because I was but I didn't end up going. His mates knew he liked me. He followed me into town when I was going shopping and his mates tried to hint it and he tried to ask me out but was shy. He left college and stood behind my chair, I was too shy to turn round. He flirted with me in lesson.

But in college, he used girls to make me jealous. His friend on the bus said he hated sitting with him because he would never shut up about me. He said he couldn't fault me to his friend and that I was 10/10. Basically, he liked me a lot.

7 months later, I have started going up town and I tend to see him every Saturday. The first time I went over we was both drunk and he asked if I thought he was fit, he also slapped my bum then I asked him what he was looking at and he said that he couldn't help looking at me, he also admitted to liking me but said he has a girlfriend. He stared at me a hell of a lot even though he was in a relationship. He had only been seeing her a few months. Next time up town he stopped on a step and followed me around the night club but I was shy and didn't know what to say so I walked away. The next night out, a week after he wouldn't stop staring at me so I tickled him and then he kissed some girl in front of me. I danced with a lad and he ran straight off the dance floor. He kissed this other girl and kept staring at me the whole time and walking past my table. He even dropped a bottle on the floor. I don't get it, If he is supposed to like me as he said he does? Why is he making me jealous with random girls up town? Also, he kept looking over at the table I was sat on when I was just talking to some boys. We are both 18 years old btw. By the way when he stopped on the step, he was single. He isn't in a relationship atm.

The poor guy is crazy about you and he's trying to make you jealous because he wants you to WANT HIM. (Cheap trick ;D) He's by the sounds of it really hurting over you. For a guy to run off when he sees you with another one, they can be really obsessed or really crazy over you.. i think it's the latter. I mean think about it every time he tries to flirt or show you he likes you you're embarrassed so you say nothing.. he takes that as rejection or like you don't want him and that hurts him.


So do you like him?

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Thanks for the advise :/ Its just I don't want to be playing these games with him, it kills me to see him kissing someone else and it makes me feel as though i don't want to kiss anyone else :( I am crazy about him ha! but I have no idea how to act now :(!

Do I like act like I don't care? Or kiss guys to make him jealous :( or try confront him:/ but I have no idea what to say ! ha he already told me he likes me but he had a girlfriend at the time :/ hes single now though, or do I just ask him what hes looking at? :( or why hes messing me around? :(!

Don't ask him those questions. I'd ask him why he was kissing those girls and tell him you want him.

If you do, that is, I don't see what's standing in your way now. He clearly just wants your attention.

Hii, thanks for the advice
how would I go about saying that? lol I can't just walk up to him and say why are you kissing other girls? when I'm not even in a relationship with him ha What should I say to him ?
Thankyou! xx

Why don't you try telling him how you feel about him? It sounds like you do like him (correct me if I'm wrong). So why don't you tell him? It sounds like he really does like you a hell of a lot. He probably thinks you don't like him because it seems as if you don't say much when he does try to flirt with you. I mean, I'd start of the conversation that way. Just tell him that you like him and that you want to be with him (if that is the case). And then, say that you are unsure if he likes you back because of the way he kisses other girls. If you don't like him, that's a different story. But if you do, you have to say something to him.

Tell him straight up you like him. Or for some dramatic effect run up to him and start passionately kissing him (preferably in a beautiful field)

Just tell him it kills you and that you want him. If he likes ya that much as he obviously does it'll feel nice to him that you dont even want him with other girls. Just start flirting with him. do NOT go making him jealous too

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Thanks for the advice
I only see him in night clubs up town :/ he works and doesn't go to college anymore. But like would I ask him if I could talk in private because some guys act differently with their friends around and also If he drinks alcohol, will he still be able to take me seriously? last time he told me he likes me was when he was in a relationship, think he had drank a bit though. Or would I just say can I ask you something? Hes single now though

not good at telling guys I like em ha, and yes I do really like this guy !x
I'd kiss him but I'm dead shy he'l reject me ha or it'l go wrong cos I like him so much ha

Just try and see him around, determine if he's drunk or not, if not you can tell him how you feel if not you can ask him to maybe hang out tomorrow or something.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3