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My best friend Amanda just got with her boyfriend in October. They both haven't kissed each other or anyone ever. Amanda was talking to me yesterday and told me that she really wanted her first kiss to be one of her guy friends. She also said her guy friend is a good kisser. So I was like whats the point? She told me that she asked her guy friend to give her some tutoring on kissing so she could kiss her boyfriend. I was like why are you gonna kiss someone that is not your boyfriend? She said she wasn't gonna tell and it was just a kiss for fun and to try it out. Do you think its right to kiss some one that is not Ur gf or bf if it is just for tutoring?? I need to know so I can prevent anything bad from happening.
It's not right to do that. Tell her that it's not a good idea and that she'll probably regret it. If she doesn't listen, then just move on. It is her choice.
You never know.. she knows herself better than any of us, maybe she won't regret it.
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Originally Posted by LittleMs.AWESOME
Do you think its right to kiss some one that is not Ur gf or bf if it is just for tutoring?? I need to know so I can prevent anything bad from happening.
Why the heck would you need to "prevent anything bad from happening."
1, it's none of you business, so you need to stay out of it and 2, how would you be able to "prevent" her from doing something?
Why do people need to butt in? because her boyfriend is going to give his first kiss to her and they've both saved it to be special and he's gonna think she had her first with him too, romantic together losing their first kisses to later find out he wasted it on a cheating chick who pretty much lied about her first kiss being with him.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Why do people need to butt in? because her boyfriend is going to give his first kiss to her and they've both saved it to be special and he's gonna think she had her first with him too, romantic together losing their first kisses to later find out he wasted it on a cheating chick who pretty much lied about her first kiss being with him.
It's there first kiss, it's not like loosing their virginity. I personally don't think it's a huge deal. What it comes down to is that it is her choice, not the friends "job" more, or less to "prevent something bad from happening." They are just kids. I highly doubt the relationship will stay together for now atleast and looking back in 10 years it's not like she's going to be kicking herself going "damn, why didn't I save my first kiss for my boyfriend of years ago."
No but her boyfriend shouldn't have to look back as his first kiss being with someone who cheated and lied. First kisses are often really important to people.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
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