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Old 03-02-12, 06:23 PM   #1
 
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Icon15 I'm so confused! I don't know what to do!

There's this girl that I'm pretty damn sure likes me. I've been hanging out in her art class during my study hall lately (cuz that class isn't as boring as study hall). She says hi to me every time I walk in and I catch her looking at me all the time. So I'm pretty sure she likes me.
But today was the first time I've really tried to talk to her (I kinda like her now), and it was kinda hard to do it today. She wouldn't talk much at first, but then I got her talking and sort of even flirting. She said she'd see me at the game tonight, and when I tried to talk to her then, all she said was "hey". Then she went home.
Point is... does she like me? Or not? Should I ask her out? She's showed me that she likes me, but when I try to show the same thing, she doesn't respond much. What should I do? Advice Please?
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Old 03-02-12, 06:29 PM   #2
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She sound shy, so just keep on trying to do small talk with her for awhile and see if she opens up some more. it might just take her some time.









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Old 03-02-12, 06:31 PM   #3
 
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Default Re: I'm so confused! I don't know what to do!

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She sound shy, so just keep on trying to do small talk with her for awhile and see if she opens up some more. it might just take her some time.
Yeah I hope so. Maybe she's just nervous, idk. But I'm just so confused more than anything...
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Old 03-02-12, 06:34 PM   #4
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Just give it time, it does seem like she likes you then not so much when you talk, so it's probably just shy. Just keep trying show her your interested









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Old 03-02-12, 06:36 PM   #5
 
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Just give it time, it does seem like she likes you then not so much when you talk, so it's probably just shy. Just keep trying show her your interested
Ok, I can dig it. But how do I do it subtly? I DEF don't want to seem pushy, but I also don't wanna be so subtle that she can't get the hint, and thinks I'm not interested at all.
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Old 03-02-12, 06:39 PM   #6
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Well first off just show her you noticed her, you want to be friends etc. Keep trying to talk to her even if she's kinda not talking back, basically, try to be friends with a few small hints that would make her feel good.

Watch for her reactions, body language is everything and you can tell how/where to go from there. You can also keep posting on here if you have questions about her actions. If you try to talk to her every day for a week she might start opening up more and then you can see.









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Old 03-02-12, 06:42 PM   #7
 
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Well first off just show her you noticed her, you want to be friends etc. Keep trying to talk to her even if she's kinda not talking back, basically, try to be friends with a few small hints that would make her feel good.

Watch for her reactions, body language is everything and you can tell how/where to go from there. You can also keep posting on here if you have questions about her actions. If you try to talk to her every day for a week she might start opening up more and then you can see.
I'll take note of that! Thanks a lot DeepDistress!
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Old 03-02-12, 06:45 PM   #8
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Sure thing Plus its best to get talking and be friends to see if you do in fact actually like her for who she is.









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Old 03-02-12, 07:21 PM   #9
 
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Default Re: I'm so confused! I don't know what to do!

It sounds to me like you need to talk to her about it, I mean at first everyone is going to be a little shy. It's nothing we can help you with because we don't know every detail! I'd just go up to her and talk to her a few more weeks just to know that she's into you that way!
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Old 03-02-12, 07:30 PM   #10
 
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It sounds to me like you need to talk to her about it, I mean at first everyone is going to be a little shy. It's nothing we can help you with because we don't know every detail! I'd just go up to her and talk to her a few more weeks just to know that she's into you that way!
A few weeks? Haha, but i was thinking about asking her out sometime next week. If I can figure out for sure she likes me. A few weeks seems like a long while...
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