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Old 11-02-12, 02:01 AM   #1
 
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I've met this girl awhile back in school but I never did anything for a long time as I wasn't sure if I liked her or not even though I was thinking bout her for quite a fair bit. I started talking to her a bit more and actually got to know her better around the end of the school year last year and well I eventually called her after exams to ask her to hang out. A day before we went out, she sent me a really long text telling me that she doesn't want to go out with anyone and that she is really happy to hang out with me and all.

I was quite confused at that time as I thought she had like me too as she always seemed to bump me on the side on the hall way a lot, unless it was coincidental which I doubt as it happened way too often and she always looked back after she did that and sometimse she would wave her hair towards my direct when she cuts me off in the hallway. She would also look towards me when I walk in the library sometimes well more like stare and sometimes with a smile too.

I've been out with her about three times and notice that I have come to liked her even more. I know she doesn't want to date anyone but valentine's is coming up and I'm not sure what I should do, I've asked her if she's free anytime next week and she said she'll check on it but it would be nice if I could take her on on valentine's night and I'm not sure if I should just text her that or maybe just text her a valentine message on valentine's day. I'm really want to ask her out but I also respect the fact that if she doesn't want to as I enjoy spending time with her. Any suggestions?
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Go for it. You may end up regreting it and thats a really bad feeling. Trust me
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Either way. I lean toward respecting what she has told you. But your friends so you can go out as a friends date either way. It's just up to you whether you go as chill friends or you want to make another attempt to sway her, but i dont see the point.
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Either way. I lean toward respecting what she has told you. But your friends so you can go out as a friends date either way. It's just up to you whether you go as chill friends or you want to make another attempt to sway her, but i dont see the point.
Well true, but she may have changed her decision considering it's been awhile. I never really swayed her at first, I just asked if she wanted to do something together
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You should definitely make your feelings known, Valentine's is a good day to do it. Make it clear that you don't wanna go right ahead and start dating, but let her know. It may spur her forward as well.
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well she just replied my text and said that she is busy next week and that us hanging out is more often than when she catch up wit her friends. I really have no idea what to reply saying to her text I feel as if she does not know how to reject me. Or she is just really interested in her studies
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however she still says something bout seeing each other once in awhile
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It might scare her off if she's already apprehensive
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