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Old 21-02-12, 01:54 AM   #1
 
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Default Decent guys, where are you?

I've been wondering lately where are the "decent guys" in real life? Sometimes it seems they're only fictional heroes from books and movies. There are already plenty of "players", "douche-bags" and other derivatives of this kind - they all look for one night stands or treat their girlfriend as an accessory (a "prestige booster"). Is it possible that the world we live in has turned man into a senseless robot? As if feelings are buried somewhere deeply... Is chivalry forever gone? A decent guy wouldn't fall for your physique only, but for the person you are. He would respect you, he would understand you, or at lest try to do so, he would treat you as an equal... To sum up - a decent guy would try to familiarise with you first. If you get on well with each other, your friendly relationship might flourish into something more - love. Then he wouldn't take you for granted, he would care about you, he would be right next to you in times of troubles, he would make anything just to see you happy... And he wouldn't fuck you, but would make love to you instead... Everyone dreams of a romance, not everyone dares to admit it.
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Old 21-02-12, 02:56 AM   #2
 
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Default Re: Decent guys, where are you?

I don't know if that's necessarily a decent guy.

I, for example, wouldn't fall for someone's physique. I try to respect almost everyone, and understand people (this one is really hard, but I like to try it). But I would never be considered a decent guy because I'm completely crazy.




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Old 21-02-12, 02:59 AM   #3
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No, chivalry is not all gone. There is still hope for ladies. ;p
Of course, if you want a Prince Charming, you should know how to act like a Princess.
As for where these decent guys can be found, well, it's not like they gather all in one place. It's all a matter of luck and chance.










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Old 21-02-12, 03:03 AM   #4
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Default Re: Decent guys, where are you?

Yes there are still "decent" guys just gotta look everyone has flaws so if you a looking for perfect you are shit outa luck








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Old 21-02-12, 03:44 AM   #5
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Default Re: Decent guys, where are you?

I actually laugh at the fact you think there's no decent guys around.
There everywhere it's just that the "douche-bags" eliminate them from been given attention.
You think mostly every guys is an idiot so you won't give any of them the time of day.
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Old 21-02-12, 06:58 AM   #9
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Anywhere but here, I'm a massive cunt.
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Default Re: Decent guys, where are you?

Every girl I know that says this have crowds of their 'perfect, decent guy' right in front of their eyes, they're just too shallow and don't give them the time of day because more often then not they're the 'dorks'. You only think all guys are douche bags because, chances are, that's the only type of guy you go for.
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