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Old 28-05-12, 05:07 AM   #1
 
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I've only just realised that I like a guy, he's the first guy that I've ever liked, and he's funny, nice and texts me everyday, he invited me to two parties, one last saturday and one this friday, the only problem is apparently I made an ass out of myself
I didn't know anybody at the party and I'm a very shy person in general, so I got drunk and I regret it now
He's friends with one of my best friends, and I felt like I did something wrong that night, so I asked her if he said anything, and he did, he said that he's gone off me a bit because apparently all I did was "drink or flirt with this other guy and didn't say goodbye", but i wasn't flirting, i was only having a conversation, and i didn't say goodbye because i couldnt find him and my dad didn't want me to be late when he picked me up, I drink when I get nervous and To be honest, there were more wasted people than me so i don't really what to do, i sent him a text saying i'm sorry if i did anything wrong, but he's just ignoring me :/ it just frustrates me, i hate game playing, it should be simple, do you like me or not, just tell me so I can get over you
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Old 28-05-12, 05:10 AM   #2
 
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You need to just straight up txt him what you told us, why you didn't say goodbye, why you drink, etc.
And wait and see if he replies, if not you gotta move on from here i think.
But To be honest I don't think you should be getting drunk when you don't have friends there with you. And You probably were flirting, you were drunk.








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Old 28-05-12, 05:18 AM   #3
 
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He's not replying though to what I said, I don't want to seem too desperate or anything, and trust me, I wasn't flirting, I see the guy I was talking to in a brotherly way, he's in my class and I know him more than I did most people there, I talked to him because he was having a conversation with me and didn't leave half way through, I barely saw the guy I liked because he was busy talking to everybody else :/
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I hate game playing, it should be simple, do you like me or not, just tell me so I can get over you.
If you really want that love is this easy, then you don´t understand love at all. No offence.

As for the guy...like poster above me said, text him the entire story and go with the flow. He may forgive you if he thinks you are worth it.
But he might not look to you as a potential girlfriend, so don´t get your hopes up sky high...
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Old 28-05-12, 06:50 AM   #5
 
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It's fine cos you're right, I don't understand it, I've never had it, I've seen it happen but it's never happened to me and I guess I just wish I knew what to do, if I had some idea on how to not screw things up
I don't expect anything to happen anymore, I know things have changed and for me, and I think the best things are unexpected, I don't like having hopes to live up to, because I just end up being disappointing :/
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Old 28-05-12, 08:32 PM   #6
 
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Default Re: What do I do?

Everyone is a bit different in how they react to other people. Some people love for others to show love towards them and others respond better when they see the person they're mad at with another person.

Forgive me if I read your posts wrong, but it seems that you texted him and told him what you told us. That's good but now it's time to back off a bit. Relationships are a lot of push and pull. According to you, you didn't do anything wrong, but he thinks you did. That could be him just being jealous or something else. You pushed towards him by texting him that you're sorry and you don't know what you did. Now its time to pull back. Giving him to much attention may upset him even more. I know it sounds funny, giving him attention will make him more upset when he is upset because he feels you ignored him. Just give it a try. You've down some work, now pull back and let him do some. Love isn't easy, but don't give up on it
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