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That your not as ugly/ unwanted by chick's as you though you were. I'm SIRIOUS!
Yesterday we had a whole day science project where we went out to this wooded area slated for development for some "save this piece of land!" sorta thing in which we were taking note of biodiversity and whether it should be kept or razed (etc).

So during that excursion. I learned some things. I've built quite the rep with the ladies.
Apparently I come of as smart and "intellectual" to them, atleast that's what a girl told me.
Anyways.
Like, there's this girl I used to like in sixth grade that now goes to the same high school as me now right. Well, I kept noticing her throwing furtive glances at me all the time (we have no classes together, but the excursion included everyone who took science for this semester). Up to this point, she'd acted like she didn't even notice my presence whenever we walked past each other in the halls, this time though, she goes on and starts saying "Hey! Did you go to x public school in sixth grade?" and stuff.
And I should mention that by the end of the day, like, four girls were following me around (we had to do scientific experiments on the pond for pH levels, O2 levels, Phosphate and whatnot, but they were done, and so was I, so I decided to go back to the pond for no reason and they decided to follow me..).
Anyhow. After some detective work, I realize at the most akward of times, that I'm quite popular. I know with differing levels of certainty that atleast three girls "like" me or have a knack for staring at me at odd times and liking away when I look back.
Who knew right?
Still, I got absolutely no moves when It comes to approaching girls and am still really, really akward with girls in general.
But it's something to sleep on right?

And no, I don't want to sound like a dick peoples.

Back to the matter at hand though. This girl I used to go to school with in grade six? Ya, she's pretty...noice, and with this odd boost of confidence my disposal, I want to approach her. Thing is, as I'm sure you might know, I'm pretty closed up and my responses on the night in question were short and may come off as...cold.

Fellas, it's time for you to tell meh what to do. *Ya, i need a girls advice on this one..*

Add her on Facebook if you haven't. Start up a conversation, and when things are getting interesting and you develop a conversation, tell her you have to go. BUT! Tell her that you can text her. give her your number, and ask for hers.

You now have her number

Get to know this girl, and you will be able to let your hair down a little bit (because you'll be comfortable around her). Once you're comfortable, just make a move on her. Don't get friendzoned before you have a chance to make a move though! Be a little flirtatious, and show interest in having a relationship. Throw hints at her. If you make her wonder if you like her or not, she won't friendzone you, because she'll recognize that she likes you too

And then there's romantic geniuses like you Narbatholem. Thanks bro, I'll get on to adding her..today maybe.
On a second thought, no, I'm doing this ASAP!

K, just sent a friend request..all that's left to do Is wait. Also, should I start the convo? Or let her start it?

Do you want to come off a desperate? take your time

I didn't choose the thug life

My mom picked it out for me at walmart

Alright, she hasn't accepted my friend request yet anyways..

When she accepts it, WAIT A DAY. You don't want to come off as desperate or hasty to start anything.

Just be yourself dude.

You will do fine.

This is genius.

I love how the first part of the thread says 'Girls only' and all guys have answered lololol

On the contrary I like @Nobartholem way of thinking