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Old 31-05-12, 10:43 PM   #1
 
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Default What does it mean if a girl looks down?

That title sounds WAY too analytical... Well, there is this girl. There is always a girl... Whenever I look at her, every single time, her eyes are pointed down. She is really shy and so am I. It feels like something is going on there, but I'm too shy to find out, and it would be obvious to her to have someone like me, who never talks to anyone, come up and talk to her, who hardly anyone speaks too. I wish I had someone to talk to about this, but I'm too shy and I talk too awkwardly to make any close friends.
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Some people have difficulty making and maintaining eye contact. I am one of them. I don't think that you should assume that she likes you based solely off of this. You should try talking to her to get a better feel for how she feels towards you.
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She also sat next to me in Church. We were the only ones in the pew. Didn't know what to say to her then... SO we kind of just sat next to each other, awkwardly quiet, and went through mass.
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Maybe she feels a bit more comfortable with you. Maybe she wanted to say something or hoped you would. Try approaching her and starting a conversation sometime.
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You are a guy. A manly MAN!
You have to take the first step, how shy you might be. Once you broke the ice, it will get way easier to talk to her.

As for the staring down, it's probably because she is very shy and has difficulty to look into your eyes. I have that same problem aswell.








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Exactly what @VelveteenWolf said.. I have similar issues with eye contact so maybe that mixed in with her being shy is what makes her look down. If you're the same then that's kinda cute. xD Sorry. Anyways like Mike said, you need to break the ice and start up a conversation otherwise what's the point in hanging out if you're going to be too shy to even talk.. Maybe you guys could sit in a park and you could start up a convo, or do an activity which involves a lot of talking. Don't push her too much but atleast talk a bit.








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Default Re: What does it mean if a girl looks down?

Head and Eyes are some basic parts for Body language ...


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Lowered heads indicate a reason to hide something. Take note if someone lowers their head. If it is when he is complimented, he may be shy, ashamed, timid, keeping distance from the other person, in disbelief, or thinking to himself or herself. If it is after an explanation, then he may be unsure if what he said was correct, or could be reflecting.
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If someone looks down at the floor a lot, they are probably shy or timid. People also tend to look down, when they are upset, or trying to hide something emotional. People are often thinking and feelings unpleasant emotions when they are in the process of staring at the ground.
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However that doesnt mean , that "This" happens to this person , she might be havig a habit or something , well i think she is just shy and doesnt know what to say or do , maybe she likes you xDD !!!








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Aw, you guys are so cute.

I would say like Kahlil did, doesn't mean she's into you. But sitting next to you and stuff i thinks he wants to get to know you better, so just try and build yourself up a bit to talk to her. Just start as friends this could really turn into something good for you.
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She also sat next to me in Church. We were the only ones in the pew. Didn't know what to say to her then... SO we kind of just sat next to each other, awkwardly quiet, and went through mass.

Woulda been the perfect opportunity to talk to her and get to know her (unwrap the secrets of this quiet, shy, mystery girl lol) ... somebody needs to be the first to speak .... or you can just go through life always wondering ... be a man and say hi
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What's wrong with it being obvious? You want to be obvious, otherwise she won't know if you're interested in her. If no-one ever talks to her she must be lonely, all you have to is go up to her and start talking. Confidence is all you need.

If I were you I'd walk right up to her and tell her what you like about her and why you wanted to talk to her, give her an honest compliment. Something that simple will sweep her off her feet, from there I'd be forward and ask her out somewhere, where you can get to know her better. A cafe would be a safe choice. If you're not that confident you can ask her for her number. Goodluck man!
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