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Apparantly I don't have the 'it factor' that every other girl has to keep a guy or atleast keep them coming.

My last ex cheated on me with anything that had a fucking pulse and offered two girls that he'd leave me for them.

He left me for a girl two years older than him who has a child. And she fucking lives in a different state than him too.

The other ex left me for a girl too.

I can't keep a guy in love. I must be like, super uninteresting and just unlovable cause all my friends have already had like 9 exes. I've had two. And guess what? The two I had, I met on the internet.

During high school not one guy approached me.

I mean damn. I'm just done hoping.

Anyways sorry for the rant but I'm a bit buzzed and a depressed drunk. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

oh yes and i dont expect anyone to relate cuz im sure youve broken a heart or two or have already have 8 exes by now. IN CONCLUSION FUCK MY LIFE I GIVE THE FUCK UP I ACCEPT THAT IM TOO WORTHLESS TO BE LOVED

hell right now my friend is in the living room basically fucking her 'ex' and im just being the third wheel like alwas.

I think it's the guys you're putting yourself around.

They're all fucking assholes.

What you need is a better taste in men, not a trick to keep them around.

i dont know

its not like im repulsive

im decent looking but i really truly believe its something about me that just doesnt make men fall in love

and its not like i have a ton of men im surrounding myself with

It's not you who's the problem, they're the problem. They're worthless shits, you're not. Just need to find the right guy.

On a side note, maybe you are worthless to them. The whole point is to find a man who sees your worth.

You're being too harsh on yourself. You're definitely not worthless, it's just that you haven't met the right people I'd say. And don't worry you're not alone, there's like plenty of us who haven't fared well in love. I'd suggest you to not give up hope, probably take a break from guys for awhile and give a thought to what exactly you want from life. Your life is too precious to be wasted, lamenting over something that worthless. Good luck and take care.

That's the thing. You're not repulsive. You're working with the men that come to you, though. You need to find new men that aren't the ones that come to you, because the ones that are shitheads

You're logic is backwards, you say men don't like you since you've only had 2 exs, however you can't say men don't like you because you've had 2 exs. Just because nobody confessed their love to you doesn't mean that nobody will love you.

You need to go and find someone, it's actually ridiculously easy, all you have to do is ask somebody on a date. You're feeling sorry for yourself and saying that you've given up when you've never even tried. You'll soon find that there are many nice guys that will want to be with you.

Honestly, if you base your self worth on what others think of you/how they treat you, you'll never think you're worth anything.
Who gives a shit that some dude left you for some e-relationship with a chick who's fucked her life up by having a kid young?
The only one who's loss that is, is his and the fact that he did so only shows how lousy he is at making good decisions.
Why would you want someone like that anyway?

There's always going top be people who treat you like crap or that leave you for someone else or who just don't have a high opinion of you all together.
The thing that makes a difference is you KNOWING you're worth a hell of a lot without them anyway.

12.07.2007<3 The day he stole my heart.

06.26.2010<3 The day I stole his last name.

I agree.

If you were worthless and unattractive, you would not have been able to have 9 exes.
However, at the same time you are choosing the wrong guys.

Also, your selfworth should not be based on keeping a man in your life.