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Old 10-07-12, 01:40 PM   #1
 
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Okay, so here's a question.
How would you describe being 'inlove'??
& what is you're point of view of it?




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Old 10-07-12, 01:50 PM   #2
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I think being in love is something you can't describe, really... I mean, from what I've gathered, you genuinely care for that person with your whole heart, and would do mostly anything to help/protect them. It goes below the surface.

I'm certain I'm in love. Mind you, it might not be get married for 50 years love, but it's love all the same. Love is different for everyone.
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Old 10-07-12, 02:22 PM   #3
 
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I would think 'in love' is subjective to the person - as in what is love for another isn't love for someone else.

I love someone right now but I'm not 'in love.' I'll take the poetic route and say being in love is.. well, being in love - to sort of 'drown' in it, so to speak and after awhile, you can't tell the difference between being in love and yourself.

I'm gonna ruin this and say being in love is the final evolve stage like a pokemon. Yep.
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I've never been in love, but these two characters are the true model of love that I can only hope to match someday.

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Well It's pretty much hard to explain and impossible to understand till you're in it.

For me, ive loved guys but I was only ever truly deeply for real in love with one guy. Ive loved guys, but the one guy it was just like.. when you hear old people talking about "You just know" and how that one is so different etc. I think, for most people myself included there's a lot of loves and you never really know what the real deep one is till you're in it. Even with my early loves I thought it was real love but I was so wrong








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Ah, love.
Being in love is something quite unique and overwhelming.
It's a feeling so strong that it can take you to the paroxism of happiness, but sometimes very deep down also, if heartbreak happens or if it's not reciprocal, or other reasons. It is, therefore, a huge strength and a massive weakness. I like the two faces to it, there's always this kind of duality and ambiguity. It is not only wanting to possess the other in a selfish manner (and in all ways possible), but also a way of giving all of yourself, trusting the other not to destroy you, a sort of escape too...
I personally take love very seriously. Being loved is just as much important to me as giving love is.. I can be quite rational sometimes, but my emotional side is incredibly strong and most of the time takes over. I'd give it all if it meant I could put a longlasting smile on his face.
Love is being selfish and altruistic all at the same time.
I've also felt that love is a raging will to... protect. Like you could destroy anyone who could harm your other half, or that it could be self-destructive if you found yourself making mistakes and hurting the other.
Although, in general, I think love is a beautiful way to hope. Hope that someday you won't hurt as much, and that you won't feel that lonely because you know that your beloved will be there for you, and be ready to save you from the depths of hell itself. Love is sharing burdens, it's equilibrating your life with someone else's, making it worth it and beautiful.

Love is just... woah. Freakin' madness, really.











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Old 12-07-12, 06:18 AM   #7
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Well It's pretty much hard to explain and impossible to understand till you're in it.

For me, ive loved guys but I was only ever truly deeply for real in love with one guy. Ive loved guys, but the one guy it was just like.. when you hear old people talking about "You just know" and how that one is so different etc. I think, for most people myself included there's a lot of loves and you never really know what the real deep one is till you're in it. Even with my early loves I thought it was real love but I was so wrong
I agree but yet I disagree.

Unfortunately the English language only has one word for Love while other languages have multiple.

I think that most just really like guys. But they have not actually loved one guy. Until you actually love someone its not completely describable.
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Well, first my point of view is that being in love, is much different than loving someone. You can love anyone, like a friend or family member. I love my dogs, I love my mom, I love my friends. But that's all different from being "in love."

I believe being in love is different for everyone. For me, being in love is when you're willing to look past the faults, and in fact start to embrace some of them. It's when you're willing to anything for that person at pretty much any cost. It's when you're willing to wait for that person if you need to. It's also willing to let go of that person if you need to. True love feels better than anything else you feel, and it hurts too. Because when that person does something to you that you don't like, it hurts more than as if someone else did it. Love is when you're at your most vulnerable with someone. It's also something you don't know until you're in it.

Another point about love is something that a lot of people may disagree with. I think you can be in love with more than one person. Emotions are a funny thing. I believe that there's different kinds of loves, and there's different types of in loves. You can be in love with them, and with someone else.

Love is an emotion, which pretty much means you can't pin point it or it's not the same for everyone. Which is why people may disagree with me, or why I may disagree with them. But either way, that's what love is for me.
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Old 12-07-12, 11:00 PM   #10
 
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Hello guys.

I think the love is part of the most important thing in our lives,we looking for the love,we dream of the love because the love is of course the happiness !

The love is "a marker" in the life because we know we have someone and we need it.
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