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Old 23-07-12, 05:30 PM   #1
 
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Well I don't know about you, but for me to make-out with anyone;
- we have to have been together for at least half a year (in a relationship)
- I have to know his past & present
- I have to be the only one he's with at the time

I can't accept giving him what he wants (making-out) while knowing I'm not the only one he gets that stuff from..

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Depends on every situation for me, honestly.
If I really like the guy and see it being very serious ill probably go slower. but if i feel like shit and want someone I'm way more open to just doing it to feel better. though Id try not to because that's not fair to the next serious guy who likes me.

I think a lot has to do with where we're raised though, where you're from dating is seen so differently.








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ha, i kissed my boyfriend before we were technically together.. and we made out like the next night. >_> hahaha

i honestly don't think that kissing is one of those things that you have to know every detail about the guy for it to be okay. i mean, i would never just go out and party and make out with a bunch of random guys. actually, i've only every kissed 3 guys. but yeah, that's just me. if i like him enough and know him well enough already, i'll give him a kiss.
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Depends on every situation for me, honestly.
If I really like the guy and see it being very serious ill probably go slower. but if i feel like shit and want someone I'm way more open to just doing it to feel better. though Id try not to because that's not fair to the next serious guy who likes me.

I think a lot has to do with where we're raised though, where you're from dating is seen so differently.
Hold up; if the relationship is a serious, long term one you'll go slow but if you're having a bad day you'll kiss?

That makes no sense to me.




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It does in a way, like If i know it's going no where I don't mind fucking it up as much.. but if I see it going somewhere I want to cherish it and take things naturally as they come, enjoy the small things.


Like I'm not the type to just kiss anyone but there's nights where I wouldn't mind a friend that we kinda flirted and did some things.








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Ah, okay.. I find that odd though. For me, due to the fact it's not going anywhere, I won't kiss him. What's the point? If it's just a one night stand or a stupid short-term relationship, why mouth-to-mouth with him? If you do, that kiss doesn't mean shit. It's not a sign of affection or an expression of love. Therefore I think it's unnecessary.




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I think if you were more into physical and sex you'd understand. It's kinda like a craving to be close and intimate and feel that sexual tension and crap.








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Yeah I'm into physical but only with the one I love. I can't get close to someone I have no feelings for. 'Cause that means I'm just using him. Also, I'll feel like a terrible person afterwards, especially if that person thinks I love him. Everything I do I do it with my heart, no fake shit.




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I wouldn't ever do it unless they understood it was just fun, or flirty. like with friends hah.

but even with the one you love you've got issues with physical stuff.








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I just don't see the point in 'flirting'.

Yeah you're right I've got issues with having him near me.. I'm just not used to it all and plus I feel like he's just using me that's what makes me hard to give in.




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