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Have you ever had any unrealistic crushes in your life?
And by that I don't mean any crushes on celebrities or stuff. I mean people you know in your real life whom having a crush on or falling in love with just doesn't seem to be a possible or realistic thing due to certain conditions or circumstances.
Share your stories, if you have any.

" This is how the days ruled among us; one folk's disaster, is another's benefit. " --- Al-Mutanabbi

With a gal in my class, She was the biggest B**ch in the whole wild world 0.0

Oh definitely ^.^
3 times...

Yeah, just about every girl I've had a crush on.

^This. Well, it's not healthy to say that, but it's true

Just a few straight guys and lesbians. Cause my tastes are whack. :(

I think most people know my story by now so I'll spare the reiteration. But basically, even if we were not cousins I doubt very seriously it would have ever worked out. Apparently I'm a bad influence or something... people seem to think my weirdness/creepiness/eccentricities would rub off on him if he spends too much time around me. Even just as friends. Yup.

However I can easily blame that mostly on the head injury his father sustained around this time. he wasn't exactly thinking clearly for a while. He's better now, he's nowhere near as paranoid about leaving me alone with his son.

Well, anyway, it was mostly unrealistic because of our core principles, they were too conflicting. His life is all about what others think about him and me, well, pfft, if I cared about what people think about me then I might actually bother to, you know, attempt to get people to like me. He's all about studying to advance on to the next school or whatever and I'm all about doing, or not doing, whatever, I do what I what I feel like doing. Basically, we're highly incompatible anyway.

Of course it wouldn't be unrealistic if he just stopped and listened to reason (ie: me) but he is subject to group-think as opposed to thinking for himself. You'd think after years of proving him wrong over things that he'd just learn to have faith in my reasoning skills, but no, whatever the masses think must be correct! Yeah, sure, because that's how humanity has advanced this far (no, no it's not).

But, meh, we had our thing, he ended up being more of a coward than I initially figured (I admit, I miscalculated) but I take pride in the fact he came back to me. Sure he stabbed me in the back again, but now he keeps sending mixed messages to me whenever I'm in the same room as him. I affect him, this gives me a certain type of sadistic pleasure, so I'm good. *shrugs*

We're just incompatible though, that's actually the main problem. We get along just fine, it's other people that are the problem, and the fact his major character flaw is he cares way too much what others think. If others didn't care, he wouldn't care. But really, he should be the one not caring. I knew I should have taught him the wonderful art of apathy when we were younger. Then I could have saved him, and myself, so many problems. But the guy is just too damn emotional to be apathetic.

...leave it to me to fall for the exact opposite of the kind of guy I actually want. Derp. Well, he's taller than me, so not exact opposite I guess (but that's about it).

Hmm. There was this one guy who used to mock me a lot for my height, and probably some other things. Generally he was an annoying prick, but for whatever reason, I was really smitten by him.

D'Lijious is my squib 4 lyf

I had a crush on this waitress for like a year as I would go to this cafe everyday like 1-3 times, she was the kindest person ever.

Oh and my teacher she was really kind also, and was like mega hot.

oh yeah I have a crush with my x-physics teacher for 3 years now I still try to forget about him