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Old 01-11-12, 12:00 PM   #1
 
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Hi! So basically I'm dating this amazing amazing ftm guy. He has a complete female body. I love him! We both go to an all girls school and nobody knows about us. I'm 15, and am super paranoid about people finding out:(what makes it worse is that he is very suicidal right now:( my family have banned me from going out with him and I need to help him. I want to be with him but nobody is letting me:( any advice on what to say to my family? I'm so upset right now and it's making me depressed:( I want my family to accept us, and let us be together but they won't. I've tried everything I can think of:( any advice?x
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What does ftm mean?
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Old 01-11-12, 12:07 PM   #3
 
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He's born female
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Female-to-male, transgender.
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Old 01-11-12, 01:08 PM   #5
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Do you think you can tell us everything you've tried?








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It would also help to know why exactly your parents forbid it. are they religious? do they see him as a regular teenage jerk?

For the record, you have nothing to be ashamed of. neither of you do. does your school have a G.S.A? how is he treated by peers? you have to be able to show him that you're not ashamed of him or being with him if you intend to support him. it doesn't mean outing yourself publicly, but letting him know that in a heart-to-heart. the parent issue is a very sensitive one, and if they're devoutly religious, then you may have a hard time winning them over with fact and reason and convincing them how natural it is. if they're not, you could try collecting a lot of information on transgenderism and possibly search the web for anecdotes and stories of transgender individuals and the ones that love them for inspiration on approaching the issue of acceptance. there are a lot of trans activist and support groups on tumblr.








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My family are in no way religious! They just don't want rumours going around about me.. The school do know about him but our friends don't, so it's just me that he confides in
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Well still, it could help if you gave us ore info about what you have tried








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Well still, it could help if you gave us ore info about what you have tried
I have told them I love him, that I want to be with him and don't care what people say. I told them how unfair it is of them and how mean they are:(
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