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Old 26-07-13, 12:15 AM   #1
 
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Default What's your opinions on cheating in relationships?

What are your views on cheating and how much are you willing to tolerate it?

Personally I always take cheating as a moment of weakness which mostly only happens when someone's unhappy with the relationship, they crave excitement in the form of cheating, they want someone who's better in bed, or they're loose people. Aren't those the general reasons people cheat because they're unsatisfied with their current relationship?

If someone were to cheat on me and I catch them the first time it wouldn't be the automatic break up method I would ask for their excuse and depending on what they say I would simply forgive them and give them a second chance so long as they don't do it again it's cool. Of course I'm well aware of how foolish that sounds with the whole once a cheater always a cheater logic, but nobody is perfect ya know?

I personally would never cheat on anyone for two reasons,


1.It's wrong obviously.


2. I tend to get extremely loyal when I'm with someone I like.


3. In the off chance I get a moment of weakness I would be too terrified to act on it because I would fear I may be with someone who might kill me in retaliation....

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Old 26-07-13, 12:32 AM   #2
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if you are unsatisfied with the relationship what's the point in being in it? There are better solutions than cheating and maybe you are a better person than I, but i would consider that an automatic break up. It's a breaking of the trust thats established between the two when they go into a relationship. Now if you are in an open relationship, which i believe some are, then its obviously not an issue. I find it hard to believe that people just want a 1 night stand and still "love" the other person. Sure being with the same person for so long can get "dull" and stuff, but if you don't want to then you don't have to. It is obviously wrong and if you are willing to forgive someone for doing it then you are more trusting than I, sir.








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Old 26-07-13, 03:19 AM   #3
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I would instantly break up a relationship if someone were to cheat on me. If a person cheats they can sugarcoat the excuse like 'Oh I was drunk' all they like, the fact is that they cheated.
I don't believe that someone could cheat but still love their partner, it doesn't work like that really, you shouldn't be able to cheat and then get given a second chance. That just proves that you are a push over and they are likely to cheat again.
If it gets to a stage where a person does cheat then they should end the relationship as they clearly don't have much respect for their partner.









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Old 26-07-13, 09:12 AM   #4
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People shouldn't cheat! I mean, if they're not "satisfied" with their current partner then they should break up.
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Loyalty is my priority so cheating = farewell for me. Cheating will lead to the middle of nowhere. If you're unhappy with a relationship, break up and move on. At least, that would be reasonably justified. Loyalty is the first test of love - how much you're willing to sacrifice and how much you truly love. If you truly love someone you're in a relationship with, you wouldn't be able to 'share' the 'love' with anyone else.
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Old 26-07-13, 10:41 AM   #6
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I believe Johnny Depp said something along the lines of "If you fall in love with two people, choose the 2nd one because if you really loved the first you would have never fallen in love with the 2nd."
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I am going to have to agree with the last post by Kirito. Cheating is a bad thing and I do not instruct anyone to take part in it, but if you are unsatisfied then I would end the relationship first.
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No point in being with someone you love, give your attention and heart to, only to see them be with another one. It's just immoral and wrong. I believe that whoever gets cheated on should just leave their current cheating partner and move on. I do understand there are some who like giving a second chance - I personally am not one of them. A couple is always based on mutual things - respect, love, sentiments and emotions. They are broken up as soon as one steps away and cheats on the another one purposefully.

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Cheating is unacceptable but to a certain extent can be tolerated some people make mistakes and if they are truly remorseful your relationship can continue. It sucks but should not be the end all be all in relationships




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I don't understand why people don't just break up with someone if they're unhappy rather than cheat on them. A one night stand is hard enough to get over but I think having a constant affair with someone is worse. Why do some people think they deserve to have the best of both worlds? A stable relationship with a bit of excitement on the side.




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