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Old 28-02-14, 09:03 PM   #1
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I'm not gonna sit here and tell a whole story , but one question .... IS THERE ANYWAY TO GER OVER JEALOUSY. And yes I'm jealous of someone my bf calls her his best friend :(
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Don't think about it, and you'll get over it








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Old 01-03-14, 03:56 AM   #3
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To conquer jealousy you have to identify what makes you jealous. Focus upon specifically why you feel jealous of his female best friend. Do you feel threatened by her? Do you feel he spends more time with her? Talk to him about it and get more clarity over the situation.
Letting jealousy build up will only makes things worse for yourself and then ultimately your relationship. Discussing and sharing your thoughts with others will help deal with your jealousy.
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Jealousy is a form of anger and an insecurity within yourself.
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Old 01-03-14, 09:46 AM   #5
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Try to firmly reassure yourself that he won't go off with her/doesn't prefer her company. Talk to him about it. Explain that you feel jealous and you need him to reassure you









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The only way to conquer jealousy is to meet it head on.
Bottling it up will only lead to frustration, anger and spontaneous aggression.








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Old 10-07-18, 10:03 AM   #7
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Jealousy is a poison and it can destroy everything in relationship, friendship. It's often a irrational feeling. Possessiveness, jealousy works together to me. I'm agree with Tom. On last weekend, my bf was invited to his ex's birthday for her 22 years. Their mutual firends were throwing her a party and I was invited too but my mom did want me to go. I spent nearly week with my bf on the last week and she did think it was enough. Tired of. Anyways, he went to there and I wasn't jealous because i'm not in general and i trust him. However, I did just feel like being left out. They are stayed on good terms even if it wasn't great after they broke up. It did take long. He's very straightforward. So, i don't care. If you really know you can trust someone, you can feel it,
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Jealousy is a green-eyed monster


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Old 10-07-18, 04:16 PM   #9
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