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Old 15-04-14, 03:26 AM   #1
 
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Default Why Are Girls Attracted To Bad Boys?

Come on girls, don't deny it. There's a certain allure to bad boys.

No judgement here, just let us nice guys know why we finish last.
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Old 15-04-14, 04:31 AM   #2
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Girls prefer someone who likes to bend the rules and takes risks. Essentially that makes them more exciting to be with that someone who follows all the rules and does everything right.

A lot of girls have this sort of tendancy:

- He's a bad guy, maybe I can change him.
- Realises that she can't and he's an ass.
- Preach that all guys are the same.

Many girls claim they like nice guys but many of them have yet to prove that. That's my understanding of it any way.
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^^^ maybe I'm not a woman :p maybe I'm a man. I hate most women. @Tom I agree with what you said, especially with the all men are the same thing! That's just such a stupid comment!!

I'm not sure about me liking bad guys though. I'd rather someone that has time for me and wants to treat me with respect as my boyfriend does. And I treat my boyfriend the same. It's the same as all relationships, respect is key, understanding is key, compassion, care.
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Bad boys have money. They've got 1,000 condoms for every bitch they fuck. I only got 1 :(
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Girls prefer someone who likes to bend the rules and takes risks. Essentially that makes them more exciting to be with that someone who follows all the rules and does everything right.

A lot of girls have this sort of tendancy:

- He's a bad guy, maybe I can change him.
- Realises that she can't and he's an ass.
- Preach that all guys are the same.

Many girls claim they like nice guys but many of them have yet to prove that. That's my understanding of it any way.
Pretty much this.

And I see a lot of those girls go back to those same boys to get treated like shit again. Hell, my sister dated one. Took her forever to get over him. A bit irritating.




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Default Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To Bad Boys?

Actually, the idea of the so called "bad boy" repels me. I would prefer someone smart, kind, funny, or an equestrian (or all three). If I see a "bad boy" I turn and walk the other way.
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Default Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To Bad Boys?

I think girls like "bad guys" because they feel safe with them.
Bad guys act tough and show that they don't back away from danger that easily. It makes girls feel that they are protected.

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Personally I think and it's a lot of psychology issues that it's a reason for them to be a victim and they want to victimize themselves. It's a very good way for attention that they want (whether it's good or bad). And it's a way for others to feel sorry for them, and to feel the safety of 1. them, the boyfriend being controlling or 2. them to feel boosted and ego when he is generally cold to most people/girls but yet chooses you (her) even if you're treated crappy she gets the sense that she's special. It's between getting attention and feeling worthy, in a screwed up way. Bitches like attention good or bad they suck it up.


Personally, I'm f'd up enough and not attracted to "bad boys" with their stuck up self entitlement and the imaginary huge penises that inflate their egos I've got enough to fix on myself.

However, I tend to have a leaning towards people hurting/depressed/etc. I do like how I can help and feel good from that, plus i don't like seeing guys hurting and I think I'm quite different in the way that i can really help someone rather then 'oh...im sorry' or being naive and not understanding.








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In my opinion, I think a lot of girls like the rebellious, wild guys because of the mystery and adventure in it.
When you date a guy who's solid who has good morals and doesn't do anything out of the box, it can be boring.

Really, the only girls who like the bad boys are the younger teen girls. Most grown ass women only care for someone with taste and appreciates women as they are.









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