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Old 24-06-17, 06:15 AM   #1
 
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Pokeytongue My ex's friend

So me and my bf broke up last week. Still a little sad, but don't worry lol, totally the right thing to do.

After we broke up, his friend started messaging me a lot. At first it was just like "are you ok?" but he kept messaging me like a couple times a day. Before the breakup, he would like never message me. And his messages are getting sort of filrty I think, like he tells me I'm pretty sometimes. So anyway I think he likes me (right?) and I... well... I don't know how much I like him yet because it's weird to think about.

I thought there was like a rule though that you can't get together with your friend's ex? If something happens is it going to make things bad between him and my ex? Would it be better if we waited for longer after the breakup?
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Old 24-06-17, 02:19 PM   #2
 
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Yepp. There's a rule. But there are always traitors too.


Anyway ...

... aside from the fact that I don't really care much about such rules (cause of feelings you can't control and such), it's imo not very empathic texting you right away ... practically shortly after his friend texted him that you both broke up or such.

That said, it seems he isn't such empathic bonded with his friend (your ex) - a exception would be, cause he has spoken about that he's interessted in you or else to your ex (his friend).... but that would be another, may be, very unpleasant story you hopefully mustn't deal with.

Although I don't know what he's been texting you, I actually think he didn't even show much respect towards you. He should have waited a few more days ... or even weeks?



btw: anyway, I admire his tactical approach ... e.g., first asking you if you are ok, and slightly move to flirt mode. ^^
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Update: I told him I'm not going to date or have a boyfriend right now. He hasn't messaged me in 2 days lol
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I look at this situation from two sides. And I do not like both. First, what can you think of a person who does not appreciate friendship? Secondly, how do you feel about the girl which changes the guy every week, and even in one company?
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