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Old 18-07-17, 03:34 PM   #1
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Default What is cheating to you?

i've seen debates on this topic and its all over the place,
girls say a lot of harmless actions is cheating to them.
im curious what is cheating to you?
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Old 18-07-17, 10:19 PM   #2
 
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Default Re: What is cheating to you?

It's not a thing to me, cause imo cheating is such a natural behavior.
So, you shouldnt be surprised if it comes out, that folks are cheating - even on you.


Of course, this attitude does not prevent you from being hurt when you are personally affected.
But it should help to get over it faster.


My GF is quite appalled by this attitude. And she even faked a few cases to check on how deep I got this idea of cheating. At least she had to admit that it seems to be very deeply anchored in me.

So, no longer any discussions about that topic, even she still doesn't agree.
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Default Re: What is cheating to you?

Cheating, simply put, is being unfaithful towards your partner. Depending on the relationship you have with them, depends on what constitutes cheating.

If you and your partner have vowed to not touch another person in a way that could be misconstrued as a "loving" way, then just grabbing someone by the hand, and pulling them to where you want them to go could be cheating.

Whereas, for the most part, most relationships would have dating, kissing, sex, saying "I love you" (in more than a friend/family way) to another person cheating








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Old 30-10-17, 04:14 AM   #4
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Treason for me is any physical contact with another person. For example, a kiss or sex. I know that many people think that feelings for another person are treason too. But it seems to me that it is much worse when they kiss another person or have sex with another person even without feelings.
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just a kiss? really?
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Default Re: What is cheating to you?

what's considered cheating to one person might not be for another - it's why couples need to talk about it with each other and lay out where they stand with things.

imo, cheating isn't always physical. it could also be emotional. it's not "harmless" if it hurts your bf/gf.
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just a kiss? really?
Yes, I believe that a kiss is treason. Would you like it if your girlfriend or boyfriend kissed with others? A kiss is something intimate that comes in a couple. I wouldn't like if my partner's language was somewhere before a kiss with me.
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Old 09-11-17, 09:50 PM   #8
 
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Default Re: What is cheating to you?

Well, I can't say I'm not jealous if my girlfriend flirts with someone or is kissed by someone. But I would talk to her about it. That's for sure.

In general, a kiss is no big deal for me. It depends on the context of the situation, whether or not I rate a kiss as a breach of trust or such.
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Default Re: What is cheating to you?

I'm not a jealous girl but i would be hurt and i'd be disappointed if my boyfriend were to do that. Kiss another girl can mean guy likes her. It would be a treason for me.
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