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Old 31-07-18, 08:28 PM   #1
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Default How would you react if your boyfriend's or girlfriend's ex would want him/her back?

Last Sunday evening, my boyfriend's ex came to him and told you lately since her birthday party and the last party we were invited, she realized she still was in love with him, she missed him. They were together for two years and three months before their breakup, she wanted to cut off for a short time and when they got back together again, she broke up with him one month later. The breakup was painful from him and he stayed single for one year before he asked me out. Sunday, he was very upset and I could hear him from my room, windows open, when he did raise his voice outside. We talked about it yesterday afternoon and for a long time and he was annoyed, like me. But later, he told me he loved me with a pretty smile.

I'm not gonna tell everything because it'll take too long. In short, I'm too young, she is her soul mate and I'm just a teen is 16 years. She doesn't understand why he's having a relationship with me etc, etc. He got angry and he asked her to leave. I summarize because it lasted for nearly one hour. From my room, I couldn't hear a lot of course but I watched them a little bit and then I stopped because I was very annoyed. It was a bad Sunday.
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Old 02-08-18, 07:59 PM   #2
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I figure if a girl breaks up with a guy, twice, she's had her chance and has no right or reason to complain about it now. She had plenty of opportunities to set things right if she'd wanted to, especially since he stayed single for a year. She can't come back after all this time, when he already has another gf, and expect everything to be as it was. That's unfair and selfish so she has no rights as far as I'm concerned. I personally would not care about it.
Your age doesn't matter either. If your bf likes you, that's all that matters. And as long as he doesn't treat you badly because of her, I'd say you have nothing to worry about. You've done nothing wrong so you shouldn't be concerned.
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Thank you RedGirl. You got the words right. I appreciate. You're right. She had plenty of opportunities but after they broke up, she gone out with a guy and she didn't care. She is single again and she thinks he'll fall right back into it since the party. She thinks I'm a little girl. She is 22 years and my bf is 21. And I guess she did also thinks I wasn't his type of girl compared to her. She is blonde, it's a detail, she's 5'8, she looks like an California girl. You know what I mean.

At the beginning of our relationship, when we talked about our ex, he told me he was very sad after his breakup with her and he didn't care about any girl. He was a little down. Yes, very selfish and irrespectful. He was very annoyed when she came to see him and then got angry when she told him this. Anyway, it's obvious, she doesn't like me because I have a relationship with her ex. She thought she was only one for him even after their breakup, I think. My bf doesn't care about my age and he does treat me very well but I worry about because I’m still annoyed, I don’t trust her and my bf is annoyed too because I’m. He scared that things would change between us. When he came to my house in order to talk together about it there is a little over a week ago, I couldn’t kiss and sunddenly, his eyes had such a hurt expression and he said me; Please, don't give me that. He is a sweet guy but he was deeply hurt because he was very in love with her and he didn’t expect when she broke up. He was very surprised. So when she came to him, he told her he felt about her behaviour. He got her thrown opened good, right in front of his house. I just heard later.

When he was at her birthday party on July, they talked about their old relationship and before she asked him if he had a girlfriend. When he told her I was her gf, she was accused of hitting on me. He has just smiled, he stood up, he told her it wasn't true and she was a real nerve saying that. She had already seen me when she was going out with him because my bf and I are neighbors.

My bf is a little hard to open up to anyone anyway. But he made some effort with me. But when I wanted to ask him how he felt about his ex, he answered with a calm voice, rubbing his eyes; I'm just tired talking about it.

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He got angry and he asked her to leave.

That says it all.
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That says it all.
Yes. I hope she understood.
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I would not be happy, when that time happens.
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