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Old 03-09-18, 12:48 AM   #1
 
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Default My ex boyfriend keeps chasing me to get back together.

My ex and I broke up months ago because he cheated on me. Everything happened when he was at a vacation in Colombia with his family. He went out together with his cousins to go clubbing and have some drinks. Apparently, the guy got drunk and partied with some Colombian women. You’re probably thinking there is nothing wrong with that because they are just partying, right? Well, everything would have been okay and I would have been blinded as well if I had not seen a picture of him kissing one of those girls on social media. Being drunk does not give him the excuse to do so. Here, he is trying to win me over and chase me because he wants us back; I do love him but I just can’t trust him anymore. I tried pushing him away but he just keeps on coming back. What should I do?
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being drunk leads to doing those stuff. that's a normal thing, cause acohol makes you uninhibited, and you may do many things that you would never or hardly do when sober.

So it's a false term when you say : "Being drunk doesn't give him the excuse to do so."

However, if he uses this as an excuse, you don't have to accept it as an excuse.
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He wanted to kiss this girl even if he was drunken. He was uninbited, yes because of it. I agree with lliam. Don't accept it if he uses this as an excuse. Think about what you want for now and maybe take a break from your ex-boyfriend and until you figure things out.
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being drunk leads to doing those stuff. that's a normal thing, cause acohol makes you uninhibited, and you may do many things that you would never or hardly do when sober.

So it's a false term when you say : "Being drunk doesn't give him the excuse to do so."

However, if he uses this as an excuse, you don't have to accept it as an excuse.
That's the unfortunate thing, he used this as an excuse. Why did i say that being drunk doesn't give him the excuse to do this? That's because he could have chosen not to drink or not to party with those Colombian women but he still did. I get it that these women are hot and I may not be as enticing as them but he truly loves me like he said, he could have thought things through. he could not have gotten drunk in the first place because he knows how much I don't want him to get drunk.
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