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Old 23-09-18, 05:21 PM   #1
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Hello.
I am a sophomore in high school and I have not had a boyfriend ever and I really want one. I want someone I can tell my feelings to, someone who I can just show my affection to and they will show their affection to me. I don't understand what it is about me? Why are all of these other girls getting so many boyfriends, one after the other, and I can't even get one? That may sound stupid, but I'm not as shy as I used to be, I am very nice and I am pretty sure that I'm not an eyesore. Apparently, I can't flirt and I can't recognize flirting either :( What do I need to do to get a guy to like me?
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Old 23-09-18, 05:55 PM   #2
 
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You need just this: A guy who likes you.

All in all you can't made someone liking you.
But you can do something to be seen.
You can change your behavior so that others will notice you.
... and they may develop interest in you.


But never pretend to be someone you are not. That never really works.
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Old 18-10-18, 07:21 PM   #3
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I don't think that this kind of website would bring her happiness.
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Old 22-10-18, 08:21 PM   #4
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I think she would love to have a boyfriend in a different way. Just my opinion. Now, maybe I'm wrong.
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Old 23-10-18, 06:53 PM   #5
 
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Against all odds I fearlessly followed that link.

And I found listed links to sites such as milf***tic, fuck*** etc.

So cause its seemingly all about porn, I suggest to delete that link or the post @Jordan...
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Old 23-10-18, 07:38 PM   #6
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I totally agree with you lliam. This kind of link is disgusting.
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Against all odds I fearlessly followed that link.

And I found listed links to sites such as milf***tic, fuck*** etc.

So cause its seemingly all about porn, I suggest to delete that link or the post @Jordan...
Link? What link? I see no link. Do you see a link, 'cause I surely don't!... Well... at least not after my spam-cleansing hands have had anything to do with it.








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Old 25-10-18, 03:37 PM   #8
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Thank you Jordan.
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Some people don't get boyfriends until college. There's nothing to be worried about really. Just be confident and approach the guy.
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Haha.
When you want to be in a relationship just for the sake of having a boyfriend, it never ends up well. Last year, there were two guys I was semi-friends with.

One of them is tall, a bit lanky and a warm, oh-too-innocent, saintly attitude. Let's call him Mr.NiceGuy. The other one is a slightly large guy, smart Alec with a horrible reputation since he is not attractive physically, mentally, or personality wise. He also just came out of a relationship with this girl that cheated on him. Let's call him Mr.Alec.

You see, if both of them confessed at the same time. It's not difficult to choose.

But here's the catch: Mr.Alec confessed first. At the time, I didn't know Mr.NiceGuy was into me too. Wanting to be in a relationship, I accepted Mr.Alec's confession, even though my gut feeling is telling me something is very, very wrong.

Mr.Alec likes kids. Sexually. He admitted it to me as soon as we went public with our relationship. Now that I think back on it, he even kind of into my little sister, though he never wanted to admit it. Furthermore, I just wanted an emotional relationship at the time. I wanted to hold hands. He wanted. . . other things, and even tried to make me sext with him.

Mr.Alec, is also, very very good at manipulating people and guilting them. Soon, I found that I hd no time for my friends, and school. It took all my effort to try and break it off with him before anything bad happens. Luckily, the only thing I lost was my first kiss. (And damn, that was the worst, sloppiest kiss, I ever will have. His breath smelled too.)

Even thinking about it now makes me scared. That relationship also tarnished my reputation, since his reputation wasn't very good.

It was the worst decision ever. I had the looks, the smarts, and the personality. That relationship made my GPA drop (can't freaking be valedictorian now, thanks for nothing Mr.Alec), reputation tarnished, gave opportunity for this girl to backstab me, and made me lose someone that actually liked me (Mr.NiceGuy) both as a friend and a possible relationship candidate.

So yeah. Don't just go date a guy for the sake of dating someone. Otherwise, you might miss what was around you all along.

And if you're going to just try to date some guy anyways, at least go for someone with good looks. =_=
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