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Old 23-09-18, 08:38 PM   #1
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Hello,

Saturday evening I went to this party at the house of my boyfriend's friend and the things didn't go well a bit later with my bf because of her ex-girlfriend's friend. She did somehow drive a wedge beteween us. At some point during that evening, I was alone with her friend I didn't know and then suddenly, after she did ask me how I've been dating him, she told me my bf and her ex, anyway, someday, they'd get back together because it's like they were made for each other to her. I was stunned and I couldn't say anything. She told me she was very honest.

-Sorry, I don't to offend you. It's just my own thought. I just don't see the two of you together.

A few second later, I stood up, I threw away my plastic cup on the ground and I left, angry. When I was outside the home, a few minute later, my bf caught up with me and I told him everything. I was so pissed off, I told him she was right and he could get back with her. He was angry too when he did know what she'd told me and I yelled at him. He caught up with me down the block and told me not ruin everything. Then I ran and I told him where to go. A friend of his drove me home because my bf had asked him. We haven't spoken since. Her ex was there at the party, he did want to leave, I said no and this is what happened. They haven't spoken anyway and I don't think she is not to blame for all this. It's only because of her stupid friend. And now, I don't know what to do.
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Old 24-09-18, 10:54 AM   #2
 
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That's easy to to solve. Just talk to your boyfriend about it. Sort the mess out that was caused by, let's say it friendly, this honest bitch.


Classic stuff for a plot of a teen-movie btw. ^^
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Old 24-09-18, 08:13 PM   #3
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Honestly, I don't like classic stuff for a plot of a teen movie. However, it would be easier for me. My bf has a particular character and when someone hurts his feeling, he withdraws into himself. We never quarrelled before and yes, this honest bitch is the cause of this. I'm impulsive sometimes and I act before think. I admit, I regret because I was stupid. But I was so upset, I lost my temper. I didn't dare to call him because I was afraid he hangs up on me. I think he wouldn't answer the phone anyway. I haven't heard from him since two days. Something keeps telling me that I have to wait. I think he's probably hurt and still very upset. I cried Saturday, and I hate when I'm sad. Thanks lliam for your advice. You're right.
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That's what I've learned from my relationship: quarrels are also part of it. Simply to learn how to deal with it through appropriate communication.

And the drama in relationships between teens is also the more often involved impulsive overreacting. Everyone will quickly become a drama queen then. I was there several times, even though I'm more of a guy who's able to control his feelings very well. A quality my girlfriend appreciates, but also can deeply hate under certain circumstances.
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Old 25-09-18, 07:39 PM   #5
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You're a nice guy anyway, I'm sure. Hopefully, I'm not a drama queen because my bf would've dumped me a long time ago. Maybe he did it because I still haven't heard from him. I'm kidding but I get worried a little bit. I'll call him tomorrow and I'll see.

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A quality my girlfriend appreciates, but also can deeply hate under certain circumstances.
I understand. Me too sometimes. I think nothing's perfect. Simply to deal with it. But it's ok.

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Yes. I understand it makes guys run a mile.

You give good advice and you have a great mind. Thank you again lliam. You stay the way you are.
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Old 26-09-18, 05:46 PM   #6
 
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at least I'll try.
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Old 26-09-18, 06:50 PM   #7
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Just to tell I did call him in the early evening, I left a message on his voice mail and I said "I'm sorry,I shouldn't have reacted that way, I came down on you so hard. Call me back if you want and if you feel like talking about it or whatever. I hope it's okay."Got no return call. Maybe he couldn't or he just needs to think about that stuff I suppose. I now await. I'm not one to stalk anyway. It's up to him.
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yepp. it's his turn now.
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Yepp.
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Old 03-10-18, 07:59 PM   #10
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Yesterday, we talked a long time about what happened and he told me he was going to tell his ex-girlfriend's friend off once and for all and then he had it out his ex and make sure was clear about it. She wasn't doing anyway but he wanted clarify the situation definitely. If he didn't call is because he was hurt, I knew it. He needed to clear his head. I can't tell everything, it'll take too long. Anyways, it was a good talk. Thank you again lliam.
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