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Old 27-09-18, 05:32 PM   #1
 
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Hello everyone. I'm new here THIS WILL PROBABLY BE LONG BUT PLEASE PLEASE READ IT I REALLY NEED HELP!!
So I'll get right to it... I like this guy, let's just call him C. Other people in this 'story' will be my 2nd best friend, V, and my former enemy turned friend, J. J and V are best friends with C, and V used to bring him with him to my art class before it started, and I used to be there and I remember thinking how good looking I thought he was... HOT DAMN! Anyways, that was last year, and this year, on our school retreat, I was in C (and V)'s group, so I got to know him and talk to him for pretty much the first time. At school, our groups hang out in different areas, never cross paths, and aren't supposed to interact. Their group is known as 'Comic-con' because they are all nerds, and my group is semi-popular. To date him would be to commit social suicide, but I don't really care about popularity anyways, so I'm not worried about that. I added him on Snapchat a couple of weeks ago and we've been snapping every day. It's not all the time though, neither of us really use snap so it's maybe 2 snaps a day from each of us. Anyways, I told this other friend of mine, who we will call D, that I liked C, because I felt bad that I'd told everyone else in my group but her. This is where J comes into the 'story', D freaking goes to school the next day and tells her every single thing I said, also, I thought I should mention that they aren't even friends, J is just like the matchmaker for that group. I went spaz on D, (I never really liked her anyway), but now I'm super mad at her because I feel super uncomfortable with J knowing, especially considering our history and the constant competition in art between me and her. I've been talking to her a lot the past couple of days about C, and she keeps asking me if I want him to take me to the Fall Ball (a dance at our school), and the thing is, I DON'T KNOW!!! I used to go to an only girls school, this is only my 2nd year in a co-ed environment, and I'm not that great at talking to boys, even though 2 of my best friends are boys... I'm super socially awkward and really quiet, but I have a really big personality once someone gets to know me. The thing is with me though, that when I really like a guy, I get scared off if/when they like me back. I think it's because I'm afraid that once they know I like them/ if we both like each other, then there will be pressure for something to happen, and confrontation in real life (as opposed to snapchat etc.). I am 15, and I have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. Part of me really wants to get V or J-actually probably V- to tell C that I like him, because otherwise he'd never know, but the rest of me is terrified that he will try to come up to me and talk if that happened. I do really like him, but I have serious problems in social situations. He is so hot, tall, sweet and smart, and I wish I could just skip the awkward part and date him, but that's obviously not possible. If you made it to the end, thank you so much, I really don't know what to do, any advice would make my day! thank you
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Old 27-09-18, 07:59 PM   #2
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So let me get this straight. Why don't you go ask him to just; Hello, My name is ..., I'd like to know if you'd like to go with me if you don't have a date for Fall Ball. I know, it's awkward but you'll know the answer. Ask him in a friendly way, smiling, be social. Anyway, if you want to go with him, it's up to you to make the first move. Or wait, and let things run their course. You can think about it, what you really want. Listen to heart.
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Old 27-09-18, 08:07 PM   #3
 
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Thanks so much for replying. at our school, the guys have to ask the girls, so if I wanted to go with him, I would tell J to push him in the right direction. She said he definitely would take me if I gave her the go-ahead... last year I went to the fall ball with my guy friend that I have no interest in but he really liked me and kept telling me that and asking me out, and it was so awkward I wished I had never of gone. Also- I don't know how to slow dance. Proms etc are new to me because I'm from Australia. Also- I wouldn't have to say "my name is" because we have spoken before, just not much.
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Old 28-09-18, 03:49 PM   #4
 
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you ask him




and he reacts as such


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Ahahaha
Thank you for responding. That's for sadies, though not fall ball. We do boys ask girls for fall ball and vice versa for sadies. I might ask him to sadies though! but it is a while away...
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Old 28-09-18, 07:01 PM   #6
 
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you could dress light a Green Lantern and, whilst holding such a lantern towards him, say that oath:

In brightest day, in blackest night,
No guy like you shall escape my sight

So please say "Yes" and hold me tight
when we dance at sadies through the night.
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Old 29-09-18, 07:36 PM   #7
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Let us know. @lliam I like your humour.
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I like the second idea Liam. Lay in the road, and ask for a date... or die
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Old 30-09-18, 06:41 AM   #9
 
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I still wonder why I wrote light instead of like.
Maybe I was so enlightened that moment.
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Old 30-09-18, 06:49 PM   #10
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I still wonder why I wrote light instead of like.
Maybe I was so enlightened that moment.
Certainly.
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