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Old 05-10-18, 11:26 AM   #1
 
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Default What would you say are some strong signs that a guy has had positive past experiences with girls?

I am sometimes curious if the guys that catch my attention has had an overall positive experience with girls in general, and I was wondering if there is something about their body language that can give some "clues"?
In other words, how would you expect a guy with these positive experiences to act around girls, as opposed to someone who has had less positive experiences?

My guess would be that maybe they find it much easier to look girls into their eyes for a long time and act relaxed in general, and maybe also use a lot more physical contact?
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Old 05-10-18, 07:23 PM   #2
 
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Default Re: What would you say are some strong signs that a guy has had positive past experiences with girls?

you should first define "positive expierence"

Suppose there is a guy, relatively self-confident with a huge amount of machismo involved, who made the experience that he can somehow make girls do what he asks them to do.

This too is a postive experience.

But you can bet that his behavior towards girls or even his pov on girls causes longterms many probs for him and those girls, he's into.
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Default Re: What would you say are some strong signs that a guy has had positive past experiences with girls?

Well basically I just mean a normal well-mannered guy who had overall positive experiences with girls during his school years, like for example had successful relationships with them and felt popular among them - nothing "bad" like manipulation or arrogance, just normal popularity and self-confidence.
Is there then any specific type of body language that a guy like that would develop when he talks to other girls later in life?

I would assume that smiling while holding a firm eye contact and fearlessly using physical contact during a conversation should be signs of good self-confidence around girls, so that it becomes clear that "yep, this guy believes in himself when it comes to girls and was probably quite popular among them during earlier school years"?

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Default Re: What would you say are some strong signs that a guy has had positive past experiences with girls?

I suppose, in general, all postive experiences that promote an individual's self-confidence and self-image also have an big impact on a person's behavior and body language.

And of course you can recognize that at a boy who smiles at you openly and keeps a certain eye contact. It doesn't necessarily have to be that this is based on having positive experiences with girls. He can simply be an open person by nature.

In the end it doesn't matter if a person is open-hearted by nature, or if he or she became it in the course by socialization.
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