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Old 01-12-18, 03:35 PM   #1
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I'm 12 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together nearly 2 years it's our anniversary next week.
We've obviously not done anything sexually but we do kiss regularly.
Every day he tells me he loves me. He hangs out with me at school all day and stays over at mine most weekends. Our families have met and we're comfortable with each other and get on super well. We're best friends as well as bf/gf. He calls me babe and says I'm beautiful and sexy.
BUT I've just found out he's started watching porn. I don't know what to think. I feel a bit insecure and hurt by it. Does this mean he doesnt love me?
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Old 01-12-18, 04:23 PM   #2
 
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ive never been in this situation but To be honest if you arent having sex, honestly i feel like most guys would watch it. but i dunno.
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My gf and I watch it together sometimes
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Many guys watched porn anyway even if they are single. My inclination is to say that he is a victim of his hormones. But it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
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Old 02-12-18, 04:52 AM   #5
 
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I want to be supportive but also realistic, its hard to do both with a question like this.

It doesn't have to mean anything. If porn is available alot of ppl are going to watch it.

I'm not trying to encourage you to do anything your not comfortable with but how are you with a guy 2 years and haven't done more than kiss? 10 is young to be considered in a relationship I almost think thats more interesting than the porn "problem".

I've always thought the girls that start tripping about there guy watching porn ought to find that 1 in a million guy that doesn't instead of guilting the guy there with. If you tell him to stop or your breaking up most of the time they will lie and say they quit and some time in the future you'll find out they didn't and be hurt they lied to you.

Now, I'm not saying all boys lie, but... all boys lie. In the right circumstance they will do it, sorry if you never heard this before but its true. Theres a million excuses why and they believe them. They don't want to hurt your feelings, they meant it when they said it but they just couldn't stop, etc.

Its not really a character flaw tho, you wouldn't expect a lion to become vegan would you?

I don't know what answer won't leave you sad so I might as well leave you with the truth.

Unless this is arranged marriage or similar situation your not going to be with this guy forever anyway so if he loves you or not isn't really a concern, or it shouldn't be. Obviously it is or you wouldn't ask the question but as time goes on your much more likely to meet someone that you like more than to stay with a guy you got together with when you were 10.

Sorry, I know thats not what any one wants to hear but it is the truth.

Oh and if the guys on this forum start chiming in how they never ever ever would lie to a girl... there lying.
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All the boys do that (I think) and it does not mean that they can't love anybody...
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Old 02-12-18, 07:19 PM   #7
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I'm not trying to encourage you to do anything your not comfortable with but how are you with a guy 2 years and haven't done more than kiss? 10 is young to be considered in a relationship I almost think thats more interesting than the porn "problem".
I agree with that. 12 years is very young. Just kiss is normal when you're that age anyway. Try to talk about it with him.
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Boys can not help themselves and always have to see porn. that is in the nature of the man.
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Old 05-12-18, 02:41 PM   #9
 
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I’m sure most guys watch porn, nothing to do with loving you or not, just they like seeing naked girls/ women, a lot of girls watch it too
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I’m sure most guys watch porn, nothing to do with loving you or not, just they like seeing naked girls/ women, a lot of girls watch it too
Exactly. You could talk about it.
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