[nessierose]

me and my boyfriend had sex today.
but he found that his penis wouldnt enter my vagina without him using his hand.
is this normal or should it be able to enter me without any aide?

[~Lili~]

Well if he was jsut getting it in, then thats normal.. but if he was using his hand the whole time..thats a bit..odd..

[JordanJACKOFF!]

If it was the first time, he may be a bit.... weary
remember if were a virgin before it will be quite tight for him
especially if he is packing a load (:

just relax and talk to him about it
just don't accuse him of doing anything wrong
you never know
it may be the next best sex technique

[nessierose]

it was the first time for both of us.

[nessierose]

and he was only using his hand to get it in, nothing else

[JordanJACKOFF!]

then don't worry darlin' (:

remember it's a tight spot especially at first.
he may need assistance.
even now sometimes I do

It depends on a lot of things
just don't worry

[nessierose]

okay thank you

[JordanJACKOFF!]

Enjoy it (:

(but always wear protection!)

[tyciol]

Can you clarify the 'using his hand' concept? Do you mean he had to aim it?

Believe it or not, that's sometimes necessary. We have to aim when we use the toilet, for example. Now naturally we're usually flacid when we do that, but even when fully erect one doesn't have perfect control over the think, it's bound to sway a little.

Not to mention, and it's not your fault or anything, but not everyone gets 100% erect. For a variety of issues they might only get about 75% swole or something, and that's just enough to make it not rigid enough to get in when pressure is applied. Basically, your tightness is overpowering his rigidity, so that's why he is helping to keep things on track in a manual fashion.

Don't worry about it