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why do lots of guys think girl-on-girl stuff is hot?
i was reading that other topic about that 12 year old girl doing girl-on-girl stuff at a sleepover and some guy said "that's hot". i've read stuff like that before on the Internet and it seems like lots of guys like to watch videos or look at pictures of girls being sexual with other girls.
if two girls like each other and want to be sexual, thats fine by me, but i don't think it would be cool to watch them, just like i don't want to watch two gay guys doing stuff to each other either.
And the other really strange one is guys who want to watch a girl pee.... that's even more weird than wanting to watch girl-on-girl stuff.
To each his own, eh, Danny? Whatever floats your boat,as they say....I gave up trying to understand why people get turned on by certain things a while ago.
The important thing is to be aware of what works for you, and to be sure that the other person is OK with that. As long as it doesn't hurt you or them, and as long as both agree on *it*, then who's to say it's right or wrong?
The Allure of Lasciviousness (the Meretrix Sordidus Theory)
This theory involves the male attraction to female lasciviousness, and to sexual satisfaction in females --the whore part of the virgin whore dichotomy. Lascivious females and their gushing sexuality are attractive to men for some rather basic and, hopefully, obvious reasons. Slutty women give it up, which from a stimulus-response perspective, should lure any man. Women who are actively interested in sexual encounters are (conceivably) more likely to become pregnant, which is the primary aim of our reproductive hardware and software. Let's assume that males are only concerned with sex, and not pregnancy (after all, there is little males can do beyond ejaculating in a female.) Lesbian women do not engage in sexual acts to become pregnant or otherwise further the assumed predisposition for childbearing; they do so to have sex. Their sexual experiences are based on a desire to fuck, and there is very little chance they will become pregnant. There are no ulterior reproductive motives in homosexual female encounters --not even unconsciously. And as such, lesbian pornography gives heterosexual men exactly what they want: girls who want to fuck, just to fuck.
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The Allure of Lasciviousness (the Meretrix Sordidus Theory)
This theory involves the male attraction to female lasciviousness, and to sexual satisfaction in females --the whore part of the virgin whore dichotomy. Lascivious females and their gushing sexuality are attractive to men for some rather basic and, hopefully, obvious reasons. Slutty women give it up, which from a stimulus-response perspective, should lure any man. Women who are actively interested in sexual encounters are (conceivably) more likely to become pregnant, which is the primary aim of our reproductive hardware and software. Let's assume that males are only concerned with sex, and not pregnancy (after all, there is little males can do beyond ejaculating in a female.) Lesbian women do not engage in sexual acts to become pregnant or otherwise further the assumed predisposition for childbearing; they do so to have sex. Their sexual experiences are based on a desire to fuck, and there is very little chance they will become pregnant. There are no ulterior reproductive motives in homosexual female encounters --not even unconsciously. And as such, lesbian pornography gives heterosexual men exactly what they want: girls who want to fuck, just to fuck.
And now it all becomes clear.
That explains why every intelligent and nice guy I know squicks at the idea of lesbian porn then. Now I get it.
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Well, if we're getting into theory here, gay (lesbian) sex would also be stimulating b/c it acknowledges that itty bitty part of heterosexuals that's just an itty bitty bit curious about same sex stuff, it's arousing to see something acted out that's deeply, privately, and somewhat ashamedly there. Otherwise, seeing girl alone sex (masturbation) would do it. Lesbian sex is gay sex, there's something about the gayness of it that is arousing, beyond just girls x 2.
I think the male sex drive is vastly underestimated and really unappreciated by those who haven't experienced it first hand (i.e. girls!). Sure, y'all have that monthly hormonal cycle crazy thing going on, but guys walk around with a body full of testosterone, all the time. It really does have an affect, even though most guys learn to control and modulate it. Seeing sex portrayed, any type of sex, is arousing, simply b/c it's triggering an innate response we have...to love sex.
The important thing is to be aware of what works for you, and to be sure that the other person is OK with that. As long as it doesn't hurt you or them, and as long as both agree on *it*, then who's to say it's right or wrong?
Not saying it is wrong, just kinda strange because it's not something i would think guys would want to watch. if i were to asked my gf if i could watch her pee, she'd probably start laughing at me and think i was pretty wierd for asking. but maybe there are girls who like guys who are like that. i can kinda see how it might be fun to do sexual things with a gf that's maybe a bit different, but spying on two girls or watching them pee just seem weird to me.
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Originally Posted by Rogan
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The Allure of Lasciviousness (the Meretrix Sordidus Theory)
This theory involves the male attraction to female lasciviousness, and to sexual satisfaction in females --the whore part of the virgin whore dichotomy. Lascivious females and their gushing sexuality are attractive to men for some rather basic and, hopefully, obvious reasons. Slutty women give it up, which from a stimulus-response perspective, should lure any man. Women who are actively interested in sexual encounters are (conceivably) more likely to become pregnant, which is the primary aim of our reproductive hardware and software. Let's assume that males are only concerned with sex, and not pregnancy (after all, there is little males can do beyond ejaculating in a female.) Lesbian women do not engage in sexual acts to become pregnant or otherwise further the assumed predisposition for childbearing; they do so to have sex. Their sexual experiences are based on a desire to fuck, and there is very little chance they will become pregnant. There are no ulterior reproductive motives in homosexual female encounters --not even unconsciously. And as such, lesbian pornography gives heterosexual men exactly what they want: girls who want to fuck, just to fuck.
lol....i'm not sure i really understand all that, but it does make somekind of sense. thx!
Danny, whenever you get into other people's sexual appetites, you're often going to find some stuff that you'd consider 'weird'. Part of that is your age, too, at the beginning of puberty there's just so much to get used to... stuff that's 'weird' is just a bit beyond your grasp of understanding now.
There are lots of reasons why people get turned on by the stuff that they do, but the important thing is that both people agree it's basically OK, and harmless. In a close, loving relationship, people explore a lot of their curiosity with the other person, and that person goes along with it not so much b/c they like *whatever*, but more importantly, b/c they love their partner and therefore are Ok doing it as a way of showing their care and trust in the other person..they do it b/c they like the other person, not necessarily the action it self.. It's more an emotional thing, rather than the physical feeling they get from it. But as you get older, sex becomes more emotional, anyways.
i think i understand what you're saying... girls doing girl-on-girl stuff is normal for girls and most regular guys like it to watch them. and watching a girl pee is normal too. i never in a million years would guess everyone likes that kind of sexual stuff only they never talk about it except maybe with their gf.
Well....not quite, Danny. Most people judge things very personally based on what's typical or usual or comfortable or desirable for themselves. (They often do so to justify some behavior or attitude, but that's another story for another time).
The progressive, open minded approach to sexual 'normal' is determined by two consenting adults, if they think it's 'normal' than it is...for them. But what they think is 'normal' doesn't necessarily mean you will (or should) find it 'normal'. In this case, 'normal'=acceptable, not 'typical', nor 'average', or commonplace. I know, I'm splitting hairs here.
I don't think the majority of girls like girl on girl stuff, nor do I think the majority of guys like that, either. I don't think that a majority of people are fascinated or aroused by excretory functions, either.....But some do, and if you've never, ever thought that, then finding it out can be a shock, and it's easier to think all that stuff is 'typical'. But it's not. Just for some.
i under the difference in what you are saying. sure, what a bf-gf want to do together is nobody else business, and if both agree and nobody is getting hurt, then it should be OK for them to do kinky sex stuff together in private. Even so, i still can think some of the sex stuff i've read on the internet is absurdly funny. example: if a bf-gf want to pore chocolate syrup over each other and then lick it off, its their business, but i still think its too funny that they would want to do that. and poring chocolate syrup on each other seems almost normal when compared to some other kinky sex stuff i've read about....
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