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Old 23-09-10, 02:24 PM   #1
 
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Default IF HE SAID HE WAS GOING TO PULL OUT WOULD YOU TRUST HIM TO DO SO?

CONDOMS ARE JUST NOT MY THING BUT AT THE SAME TIME I DONT NEED ANY BABIES...BUT LETTING HIM PULL OUT IS THAT EVEN AN OPTION??

DONT THINK SO

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?




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Old 23-09-10, 02:27 PM   #2
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Well, if this was a stranger (IE. One Night Stand) common sense dictates you should wear protection, AS WELL as have him pull out. The more steps you take to preventing pregnancy, the less likely it's going to happen.

If we're talking about some guy you're in a relationship with, you should really judge for yourself how much you trust him. If you ask him to pull out, do you personally think he will?

Pulling out isn't exactly the most effective method for preventing pregnancy, either.









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Default Re: IF HE SAID HE WAS GOING TO PULL OUT WOULD YOU TRUST HIM TO DO SO?

As Kirk said, pulling out doesn't garuntee pregnancy prevention. Theres always a chance that you can get pregnant as Pre-cum (the stuff that comes out before a guy ejaculates) still contains small amounts of live sperm.

So it would be better to use protection, but as you say condoms arn't you're thing. but I suggest using them in any case to prevent un-wanted pregnancy, or perhaps use the pill?

but in any case Kirk pretty much hit the nail on the head.




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It's not a very reliable way to prevent pregnancy. I'd either suck it up and use a condom, or go on the pill.
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i am with kaylie use something!!!!!
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WHY ARE YOU SHOUTING?

agree with the above. Especially if it's a one night stand thing, it'll reduce the risk of any STI's.

It's not really the most effective form of contraception the "pull-out" method, and certainly not one I would recommend. Bear in mind aswell you can't tell how accurately your partner is going to predict when he is going to ejaculate, and also should you have sex again after a short period of time, then sperm will most likely be present when he pre-ejaculates.

From this table of failure rates (although I can't vouch for its accuracy, i'll admit it was found using google ) http://www.contracept.org/risks.php...
it syas the failure rate is 27%. That's roughly one in four. Which suggetss you should be looking for an alternative method in my opinion.

Using a condom is your best bet but if you're really against it, there are other methods. Have you considered the pill?
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CONDOMS ARE JUST NOT MY THING BUT AT THE SAME TIME I DONT NEED ANY BABIES...BUT LETTING HIM PULL OUT IS THAT EVEN AN OPTION??

DONT THINK SO

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
I'M GOING TO SHOUT THIS SO YOU HEAR IT!! SO, LISTEN UP!!!

IT'S TOO DAMN BAD YOU DON'T LIKE CONDOMS, USE THEM ANYWAYS, ALL THE TIME, FROM THE MOMENT HE PULLS HIS PANT DOWN. DO NOT ALLOW HIM INSIDE YOU WITHOUT ONE.

CONDOMS ARE THE ONLY EFFECTIVE PREVENTION OF STI'S, AND THEY ARE VERY RELIABLE AT PREVENTING PREGNANCY. MAKE SURE HE HAS ONE ON, PROTECT YOURSELF HERE, REGARDLESS IF YOU 'LIKE CONDOMS' OR NOT...THERE'S MUCH MORE AT STAKE. THE CHANCES OF HIM WITHDRAWING BEFORE ANY SPERM COME OUT AREN'T VERY GOOD, AND REMEMBER IT ONLY TAKES ONE VERY FAST ONE.

GOT IT?
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ummm why are we yelling??
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I'd either suck it up.
Please tell me I'm not the only one who read the above in the wrong context.

If so, I have problems. Or a terribly bad sense of humour.






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Please tell me I'm not the only one who read the above in the wrong context.
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