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Old 15-08-11, 12:38 PM   #1
 
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im a girl. i like to masturbate. a lot. summer has been more. my hands just find themself there. without thinking. is there something wrong with me? is it normal for a girl to do that? should i tell my parents? please let me know if something is wrong with me.
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It seems as if you're sexually aroused frequently. It can also occur when you're just bored. I recommend you not talking to your parents about your sex private life. They don't need to know when you masturbate.

There is nothing wrong with you. You're just sexually aroused frequently. You can try to reduce your hormones by avoiding masturbating.










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welcome to puberty! welcome to life! you like to be sexually aroused, and you enjoy being aroused. you are 100% perfectly normal
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i dont have sex life. i've never been with anyone. i didnt know if my parents could help me or not or if it was normal. i googled things but its kinda scary. the things that came up. hope my parents dont see that. how do i avoid doing it? i know it will have to be less when school start. but i know i will fit it in sometime during homework and shower.
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As everyone else has said, welcome to puberty! You are now going to play with yourself. It is going to feel good. It is going to be weird the first while. Its masturbating. Its normal. You don't avoid doing it, but once your busy, you will be doing it less.








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Once again, Welcome to Puberty! It's natural, there's nothing wrong with you, everyone does it. Once your busy with school, homework ect then you'll do it less so I wouldn't worry about it.










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Masturbating counts as part of your sex life. You're growing, and you're young. You don't have to have been with anybody, but masturbating still counts as something sexual. There is nothing wrong with wanting to masturbate.

Sex feels good, and so does masturbation, that's why we do those things, because they feel good, and i see NO problem in wanting to have a little pleasure.










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As everyone said, and Ill go into girly detail here.
A few inches inside your vagina there's a skin barrier that feels like a wall, it's called a hymen. This is what gets broken when you have a guy enter you, sometimes if you masturbate or use things to masturbate. Totally normal, it will hurt some and it WILL bleed and it'll hurt in there for a few days sometimes, but this is totally normal. Don't freak out when it happens, and if it does it's no biggy cause it means when you do have sex for the first time it won't be there and it won't hurt.








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Idk why ur surprised that u masturbate alot and idk why u would want to stop and/or tell ur parents. I'm surprised sex-ed and/or friends haven't taught u already that it's ok to masturbate. It's cool that u sound close to ur parents but I would NEVER discuss anything sexual with them. If u want to continue, go for it. If u feel strongly about stopping, it can be done, but it's very hard once u start and u enjoy it.
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Idk why ur surprised that u masturbate alot and idk why u would want to stop and/or tell ur parents. I'm surprised sex-ed and/or friends haven't taught u already that it's ok to masturbate. It's cool that u sound close to ur parents but I would NEVER discuss anything sexual with them. If u want to continue, go for it. If u feel strongly about stopping, it can be done, but it's very hard once u start and u enjoy it.
Most kids don't know what masturbation is, or why, or that type thing. and it's not just something you randomly bring up with friends.
I started when I was 10-11. And i have NO idea what I was doing I just knew it felt good. Girls also tend to start around 10-11 because with period your down there more, more curious, etc. The Vagina is a lot harder to see then just looking at a penis, it's out of curiosity.








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