[Giant panda]

Hi all. As you may or may not know I am in a 2 hour distance relationship with this girl, we have been together for nearly 3 months and i really do love her. Today I hit a brick wall and dont know what to do.
Her friend revealed to me just now that earlier my gf got off with this other guy.
Even though he now hates her she i saying she doesnt want to be with me and that she wants to be with her ex who she hasnt seen.
I dont know what to do, ahhhhhhh

[Outcast]

She snogged another guy and now wants to get back with her ex...

Let her go mate; ain't worth the hassle. I'm sorry to hear this but it sounds as if you can do much better.

[Tiffany]

is this the same friend who she was best friends with for 7 years and they just had a falling out? if so, the friend is probably lying trying to stir up things.

[Giant panda]

Tiffany its a different friend the other one has nothing to do with it.

Bear in mind I do still want to be with her

[Tiffany]

have you tried telling her how you feel.. or ask her what made things change? maybe she's just having a hard time right now and you're the easiest one to take it out on. it's bad, but i've done it too.

[Giant panda]

I have told her but she keeps mentioning her ex, and she has been for a while now even though she hasnt spoken to him for ages

[SparkleyCrystal]

She cheated?
You may want to still be with her but there is always that possibility she will do this again. Think about it. In my opinion you are better off without her.

[Tiffany]

^ ditto

if she keeps talking about him and has been, she's cheated and it's long distance, you basically have everything going against you. it's probably best to move on.

[Giant panda]

Thanks guys appreciate it.

Have just that I am better than being dumped over texting and that she doesnt have a clue.
This might sound cocky/arrogant, but I am better than her and dont deserve this

[Tiffany]

it doesn't sound cocky or arrogant. no one ever deserves to be cheated on and you are better than that.