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Old 04-12-11, 07:59 AM   #1
 
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this is kind of embarrassing. I really like this guy who lives like 4 hours away, we've met though at parties and things and basically we talk like literally every night and tonight we're going to sext... BUT I have no idea how!!! we've sent pictures and things, but I've got no idea what to say in the conversation to turn him on etc?! and I'm terrified I'm going to be awful at it..

So, I really need some sexting examples?! urgently! like he's tried to sext with me before and I've been like "no I can't!" he always starts with "me and you in my room no ones at home blah blah blah" so I need some ideas on what to say back please?! I don't need to be lectured about the dangers of sexing, I'm well aware- just things to reply!
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Old 04-12-11, 08:04 AM   #2
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Well, I've never really done it so I'm not going to be of much help...but I don't think you should do it until you're comfortable with it or at least tell him you're unsure of what to say, then he'll help you or take most of it upon himself?

I'm pretty sure that the internet holds many examples so try searching for some? Even if I knew what to write I'd find that you can't really give examples because it depends on what scenario you create with him.

Despite my lack of experience, however, I imagine being descriptive would be of some help. Just tell a story; an in depth, first person, perverted story.........

I don't know. Just go with it and if you don't know what to say just imagine what you would do in that situation and describe it. I'm sure these things get better with experience and practise.










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Old 04-12-11, 08:10 AM   #3
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Tell him what you wan't him to do to you. Or what you'd do to him. Be descriptive while telling him all this. Maybe send a picture or two while to accompany it.

I don't know. This is how my female friends and I usually do it.
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Yeah, Montreal basically got it bang on.

Just, tell him what you want to do to him. Don't rush straight into "I want you inside me..." immediately, tell him you're going to kiss his neck, bite him a little (if he's into it) and maybe do some other freaky foreplay stuff before you tell him you want him inside you.

Don't spare the details either. Don't be all like "I want you in me", instead, be all like "I want you deep inside my wet pussy" and all that freaky shit.

Anyway, hope this helped.
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you two dudes crack me up XD

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Indeed. Details are almost the best part
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Old 04-12-11, 09:32 AM   #7
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Intimate details work best, as the rest have said.








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Thank you! I know to give details and say like what I would do etc.. but I'm trying to work out where the mix between being like seductive and cringey is.. I don't want to say anything that will make him be like creeped out... this is why I need examples!!
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I don't know,, I think girls get creeped out way more easily than guys. If you say something that seems a little creepy,, he'll probably think it's just hot.

When you say something you would do to him, you can add at the end,, '' you would like that? '' or '' do you want me to continue? '' and you'll have your answer,, but i really don't think he could be creeped out.
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Just make sure you don't say something like "Eat out of my shit stained asshole" or "Lick my dirty vagina/asshole". Yes, I have had the latter said to me before. I didn't even give them time to say anything else; I ended the chat and deleted them off my contact list and facebook friends immediately.
I think you can use your own judgement as to what would be considered very cringey though
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