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Old 18-12-11, 10:22 PM   #1
 
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Okay so I am a virgin, and I am always thinking about sex like constantly and I know this is normal for a teen or at least I think it is normal. Anyway I watch porn sometimes like when I'm masturbating or whatever and usually when I'm done, I like catch myself and like the whole thing just freaks me out, like I can't believe I just did that or I was even watching porn.

That normally happens to be alot, and it started back when I was like 11 or so. I use to find the whole topic of sex disgusting and growing up it still never pleased me to talk about it. Sometimes thinking to much into it like how its done just creeps me out.

Is that normal?
Does that mean that I am just not ready to have sex?
If it does mean that, what the hell can I do to stop being soo fricken horny all the time?
I try to keep busy but that doesn't really help the situation
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Old 18-12-11, 10:34 PM   #2
 
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Let the hormones fly wild.
You are catching yourself because when you are "done," your hormones are done as well, leaving you un-hornyfied. There's no shame in being a horny teenager, we all are.




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Old 19-12-11, 01:44 AM   #3
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Okay so I am a virgin

Is that normal?
Does that mean that I am just not ready to have sex?
If it does mean that, what the hell can I do to stop being soo fricken horny all the time?
I try to keep busy but that doesn't really help the situation
You are a virgin -> that's fine ... !

That's normal.
You are ready to have sex, you watched porn so you know how to do that.
You must sex, sex, and sex and it will stop ... (kidding ) just masturbate!

This's my opinion
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Old 19-12-11, 05:51 AM   #4
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Default Re: Being a Virgin!

If you aren't sure whether you're ready, then you're probably not. Don't feel pressured by these . . I want you to stop worrying; you are doing just fine.
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Old 19-12-11, 07:25 AM   #5
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Just masturbate. Really, it helps. Just don't let it consume your life. No need to give up your virginity just cuz. That makes no sense.








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Old 19-12-11, 08:28 AM   #6
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Default Re: Being a Virgin!

Listen I've noticed this in various situations, when you're told don't touch you want to touch. When told don't do you'll do. So when you're told not to have sex or something like that you'll want to and think about it all the time.

When I was in school I was told never to smoke cigarettes, weed etc. Now I'm a pot head, still not smoking cigarettes or any other drug but yea you understand.

The best thing I could say is either masturbate a lot to kill the urges or fight them and try to forget.
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Old 19-12-11, 09:14 AM   #7
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Let the hormones fly wild.
You are catching yourself because when you are "done," your hormones are done as well, leaving you un-hornyfied. There's no shame in being a horny teenager, we all are.
True no matter how much "experience" you have.. I'm not a virgin, and I'm sexually active now, but what the OP described and what @FromDownAbove just said holds true until your hormones settle. Don't worry a bit, its totally normal.










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Old 19-12-11, 09:42 AM   #8
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You're completely normal as everyone else said. Don't worry about it too much.








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Old 19-12-11, 09:44 AM   #9
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Default Re: Being a Virgin!

It's normal but i wouldn't have sex yet cause one, you asked us and that shows you aren't ready, and two you might get a weird feeling after actual sex and that or get creeped out by it since you're kinda uneasy about masturbating and porn. Id just wait, you'll know when you're ready.








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